Something just doesn't feel right

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Registered: 09-07-2004
Something just doesn't feel right
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Wed, 07-19-2006 - 3:03am

Hello-

Here is the situation. I have been seeing this guy Josh* for about 3 weeks now, first week we just talked on the phone second week we started to hang out. All we have done is make out a lot and go to the movies together. The problem is that he always has his friends along. It is like he can't be with out them. Since this is all new, he may not be comfortable being with me alone yet.

Today he was suppose to have me come over and cook me dinner, but that didn't happen. So instead he came by my house with his friend!, and gave me flowers. At this point I was a little icky about the whole thing. I like flowers, but I get weirded out when I get them so soon. The other thing i didn't like, is that his friend got his girlfriend flowers too, so I just felt like it wasn't that genuine. Before they left Josh told me that he is starting to like me a lot. I like him too, but something just doesn't feel right. Since his best friend has a girlfriend i was thinking Josh just wants to be doing the same thing. Any suggestions on this?? Thank you!

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Wed, 07-19-2006 - 11:38am

How about just asking him if you can spend some time alone?