Somewhat of a personal question....
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Somewhat of a personal question....
| Sun, 06-24-2007 - 5:20pm |
How many is alot of sexual partners for a male soon to be 22? I was talking with some friends, and it seems that I am 1 less then the top (which is a 23 year old girl, who many consider slutty)... I never really thought I slept around, mainly because just about every girl I have slept with I've had a history with prior, or was dating/turned into a relationship. Aside from one 1 night stand.
So, I lost my virginity at a normal age (16, almost 17) and will be 22 in sept. What would be considered alot? normal?
(this is just including sex though, not other things... because then my prior statement is not true...)
Edited 6/24/2007 5:21 pm ET by kerplunk237

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Oh, this is such a vicious cycle.
I'm really done arguing with people that don't pay attention to what I've just said. I said SOCIALLY...did I say fiscally? No, because if I had, I would have said that I am fiscally moderate. To me (to ME), social issues are more important than fiscal issues however (which is also why I work for a non-profit, haha :) ).
Anyway, if you want to debate/fight with me, e-mail me, I'm ok with that...clearly this is not a debate board nor does anyone WANT it to be a debate board, so I'm respecting their wishes.
LOL
sure...but I insist you pay for my drinks...*wink*
Smile,
Deirdre
I totally agree with Shywon. There reaches an age where this shouldn't even need to be a conversation about numbers.
Talking to a person you will get an idea of who they are and whether they have had a lot partners in the past without a number ever needing to be said. I personally think it is one of the most damaging conversations a couple can have and an immature one to boot!
The statistics shown nowadays are going to be completely batty about sex. They could have called my grandmother for that survey, and she will tell you she only slept with grandad. Then you get people of my generation or below, and they have certainly had more than one partner. Sometimes I've known some who slept with more than one person in a week. There could be people they spoke to who can't remember how many people they have slept with.
How many people should a man have slept with by 22? Only you can be judged of that!
Beach
Quantitatively speaking.. I don't think is as important as finding out if they were serious relationship VS. the flings, one nights, and desper8 onez. For a younger person like yourself, if your worried about numbers than just being honest and tell your partner the truth and hope they won't be turned off by the number, then maybe practice celibacy until you discover how to have better confidence and learn to find better ways to find the right relationship that isn't JUST about the physical aspects of a relationship..
But answering your ? For 22 years old kidd- I would say more than 15 is considered male-whoring. Stay safe!!
eReader_k007
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