S.O.S

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Registered: 05-18-2006
S.O.S
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Wed, 05-24-2006 - 9:15pm
I'm a very shy, modest, and sarcastic person, and I need help. When it comes to talking to guys I choke and I try to turn off the sarcasm and it doesn't work out or he isn't interested. I think I am pretty good looking...I need some pointers!
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Registered: 06-02-2005
In reply to: smalls06
Thu, 05-25-2006 - 2:41am

You need to practice talking to men and be yourself. This means striking up conversations with men at every opportunity. Since your ego isn't at stake you won't feel inhibited. Start with a simple "Hi" and a smile and keep the conversation simple. Many men (people) are receptive to conversation starters. What I am saying isn't very original but it is very effective. Trust me.

Take a look at these links.

http://www.coolnurse.com/shyness.htm

http://www.howtoadvice.com/Preview/Watuyu

http://nm.essortment.com/shynessovercomi_rchm.htm

http://www.ineedmotivation.com/shyattitude.htm