Soulmates and Boredom

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Soulmates and Boredom
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Sun, 02-05-2012 - 1:38pm

So I finished reading a book called "Soulmates" by Carolyn Godschild Miller today.

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Tue, 02-07-2012 - 11:44am

That's a funny photo, too.

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Tue, 02-07-2012 - 12:01am

You are so right.

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Sun, 02-05-2012 - 10:08pm

You are so right!

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Sun, 02-05-2012 - 3:53pm

I am going to refer this post to the age thing from the other post that Florida wrote..

I was thinking that I am aging and this week saying to myself I dont want to waste another second on someone or something that does not give me something back or something positive in my life because life is too dam short for that. That goes for people and men and women and the whole wide world including someone who is not my soul mate..

Example.. this morning I was on POF and there is a guy I meant one time and we talk on ocassion..(sp) Well? He writes me a note this morning on email and starts telling me about his gfriends and then sends me pictures of the ones he meets and likes. I started thinking this isnt really doing me much good. Its only wasting my valuable time as I could be doing a zillion other things for myself.. and not helping him with his gfriend list..

Example. I had a guy who was IMing me to death on POF and never wanted to meet.. I finally had the courage to block him.. I then stupidly unblocked him to see if he would start his nonsense again... Sure enough he started writing to me again so I blocked him again..

Example 3; My gfriend calls me all the time to bitch about her married boyfriend.. I always listen to her and now I am so sick of it. I decided I am not going to answer the phone anymore when she calls. She called this morning and I didnt answer.. Not going to waste precious time on her stupid crap about her boyfriend anymore..

So today and hopefully forever I will not waste another second doing things or trying to fit into other people's molds or lifestyles or religions or whatever because LIFE IS TOO DAMM

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Sun, 02-05-2012 - 3:24pm

I don't know about soulmates, but I do believe that women especially spend a lot of time molding themselves into trying to be or like what someone else wants them to be.