Speaking of a manfest...

Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
Speaking of a manfest...
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Sat, 12-03-2011 - 11:10am

I think that if I could just bring myself to flirt with strangers, I'd have my pick of a whole litter of men these days.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Sat, 12-03-2011 - 11:26am

Well at least you're going out & having fun.

Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
Sat, 12-03-2011 - 11:57am

I do have fun, and that's the whole point.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Sat, 12-03-2011 - 4:17pm

I agree.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-1999
Sat, 12-03-2011 - 5:49pm

Yeah, I second what Music said...at least you weren't at home watching Gone With The Wind(for the third time in less than a month).

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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
Sat, 12-03-2011 - 6:47pm

As a guy we have different rules.

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Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
Sat, 12-03-2011 - 6:50pm
I can talk to them just fine. It's flirting I have trouble with! I think it's because most men assume you want to have sex with them if you flirt, and I don't want to be leading someone on.

The thing I don't like about dancing with boys is that they always think it's okay to grind on me and I find that gross. The second guy just grabbed me when I was already dancing and ended up touching my boob three times. I called him on it, but I think he was just too drunk to know where he was putting his hands. If they'd just dance, I'd be fine with it. But oh, no, that's not enough. They have to make it look like we're having sex on the dance floor!
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
Sat, 12-03-2011 - 8:06pm

I don't know about dancing with the boys, and I'm not an expert on anything related to relationships, but I will say this:

Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
Sat, 12-03-2011 - 8:36pm
Much easier said than done, Marina! I do try to be a little bad, and I do have my moments, but it's with people I know and trust. I just can't bring myself to be bad with a stranger. Men are so unpredictable and you never know when one will turn on you.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
Sat, 12-03-2011 - 8:49pm

Music, when I first read your post, I read it as "ended up dating him for 1 1/2 hours" and I kept laughing all the way through until I realized my error.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
Sat, 12-03-2011 - 8:50pm

"Men are so unpredictable and you never know when one will turn on you."

Remember our previous discussion - last month? - about limiting beliefs, Shy?

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