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| Sun, 01-21-2007 - 6:32pm |
Many of us probably have some sort of standard(s) for the guys we choose to date. I've always dated guys who are in or who have gone to college. Is this snobby? Don't get me wrong, I know a degree isn't always necessary to have a good paying job, but I think that I think of the college aspect as important to me because those who have gone have experienced that part of life that I have, so it's kind of something in common that we can relate to. I don't know..
Do others have similar standards, or is anyone else ever worried that their standards are snobby? Have you ever tried to explain one of your standards to a friend and gotten a bad reaction from her? Just looking for some insight...thanks all.

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This is a joke, isn't it? Because if it isn't... I am speechless. I don't call this 'standards', I call this superficial money obsessed inhumanity. Good luck in your search for a cash point.
Here's my list of 'standards':
- I have to be physically very much into him - he has to be my physical type (too long to go into) - that is non-negotiable.
- He has to be just as into me and treat me with - to put it simply - tons of love and respect (that encompases a lot so again I won't go into details)
- He has to be an overall sane decent kind easy going funny preferably '40 going on 16' sort of individual without criminal record, and not addicted to hard drugs (and no, a joint every few weeks is not drug addiction)
- I don't mind if he smokes or not, but he cannot be a tee-totaller - I love my wine too much.
That is basically it. I don't care about his education/job (or lack of one or both), where he lives, £££ status, or whether he has a car - I am the world's least materialistic person; also, I am not planning to either marry or have children. Therefore, all that I require are the above points. That probably explains why I am not single - just like this board.
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