Steve Harvey Show - Dating advice

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Steve Harvey Show - Dating advice
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Fri, 03-07-2014 - 12:34pm

My one guilty pleasure has been watching the Steve Harvey Show. He has been having a lot of segments on dating. Has anyone else been watching?

Beach

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Fri, 03-07-2014 - 5:53pm

I do like Steve Harvey, although I don't think I've ever seen his show. I saw him on Oprah a few times around the time he wrote his dating book for women (Act Like a Lady?) He cracked me up.

What have they been talking about on the show?

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Registered: 07-16-2001
Fri, 03-07-2014 - 8:31pm
I don't even know who Steve Harvey is!!
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Sat, 03-08-2014 - 11:54am

He wrote a book called Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man--it's pretty interesting although I don't know if I agree with all the ideas in in, for example he says that you shouldn't have sex until you have been dating the guy 90 days--like putting the guy on probation.  I do agree that it's probably better not to jump into bed with every guy on the first date but the idea of women rewarding the man with sex as a prize seems kind of old fashioned to me.  But the idea of not putting up with men who won't treat you respectfully is a good one.

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Sun, 03-09-2014 - 3:50am

  It's the same old game play dishonest and deceitful.     Then she write that she's up set he has other women he's sexing.  Like you the only one?  How foolish.   Compartmentalize.  There is a time for passion.

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Sun, 03-09-2014 - 10:38am

I can see moderation on this.  I don't think playing games is good and women are also entitled to their sexuality so if a woman wants to have sex with a man why shouldn't she be able to do it without the double standard applying?  But I see a lot of complaints from young women who slept with a guy very soon and then they are upset that the guy doesn't want to see them any more and doesn't want a relationship, he only wants booty calls.  So I guess those women hope that if they have sex with the guy right away that will turn into a relationship which obviously doesn't work either.

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Sun, 03-09-2014 - 10:54pm
Funny how my lighthearted question about a daytime talk show became a debate about how quick someone should have sex with someone or not. It is actually a man telling women to qualify the man before you have sex with him. Men and women (on the whole) have very different attitudes to sex. I am talking horses here not zebras (as we say in the medical profession). There are always going to be exception to the rules. When I was younger, I made men wait - that had the men I dated actually proposing to me. Now I run with my hormones and end up with lousy relationships. I am back to the fact that it is good to get to know someone first before jumping in the sack. If the guy doesn't like it - well move on - I won't mind. I have had enough sex to last me a lifetime as it is. I have just been enjoying the fact that there is a daytime show that recognizes single women and not just the usual 'mom at home with her kids' stuff.
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Sun, 03-09-2014 - 11:01pm

I'll have to look for the show.  I don't know what's on during the daytime.

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Sun, 03-09-2014 - 11:10pm
The fun of being a student. I can watch a daytime show. I prefer them to what is on at night. It is escapism from the studying.
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Sun, 03-16-2014 - 1:19am

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