Strategy Question
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Strategy Question
| Wed, 07-11-2007 - 10:14pm |
I have been flirting for a while with the hostess in the restaurant that I work in. The problem is that I work at the service bar while she works at the reception. So, since we can't leave our spots for a long time, it is hard for me to talk to her, get her into a good mood and suggest a coffee date or something.
On Monday I missed an opportunity and did not realize it at the time. When she was walking by the bar, I asked if she was coming to help me clean the bar. She said okay, but since I was not really looking for help, I told her, "Neh, I don't need help. Just kidding ...." Darn, I should have kept her there.
Any suggestion?

Keep the compliments clean too. No lady likes a man who sounds like a dirty old man!
Beach
If you've been flirting for awhile, it's definitely time to ask her out.
I think being direct goes a long way. Just make sure you have a nice positive, confident vibe going on when you decide to go for it.
Good luck.