Been there, done that! Just remember, we ALL feel like that from time to time and it's nice to be able to be there for others when they are down and get it back when we need it. You are always good at being there for others - Don't forget to let us be there for you!!!!
(I probably shouldn't be shellin' out advice I don't abide by myself - but do as I say - not as I do! :p )
Hope things continue to look up for you - and we see ya around when you can stop in! :)
Hi, countrygirl. I'm mostly a lurker, and I've read some of your posts about money problems. If your current situation has anything to do with that, I can relate. I'm currently going through my own debt problems, and the word "hate" doesn't quite describe my feelings toward being in debt. I'm 34 yrs. old, and I've been living paycheck to paycheck for more than half my life. For the past five years, my New Year's resolution has been to work off that debt to no avail. It's been frustrating and depressing. I've been staying home a lot at nights and the weekends. I only venture out to watch a movie occassionally, and even that is during a certain time of day when I pay less for the ticket. I have to budget *everything* from the moment I receive my paychecks at the first of the month. The only good thing about this is that it's only for 11 more months until I pay off all of my credit. It seems like a long time, and everyday I have to psych myself up to look on the bright side which is when I'm done, by this time next year, I'll be rich compared to what I am now. I'll have oh so much more money to play with every month, and I won't have to worry about the cost of movies, cookies, gas, or anything else *extra* that I worry about today. I used to the one friend people would call to plan trips with because I had the most flexible schedule, and I always said yes to wherever no matter how much it cost. I still get those calls, and it burns me to have to tell them, "not for the next 11 months.." I've sacrificed my social life for this endeavor, but I think in the long run, it'll all be worth it. Suffice it to say, I look forward to turning 35 next year if for nothing else, I'll be debt free!!!!!
Oh, honey, I know those moments of self blame. I was with one guy on and off for 4 years and I knew that I shouldn't be with him and that my friends and family were tired of hearing about it. When I finally ended it, I was just so mad at myself for staying with him for so long and I didn't want to talk to anyone about it because it was just my own fault.
Chin up! If you need some compliments - I am good at dishing them out. In fact, Shy will back me up on this - when I was having dinner with her in Kansas City, I told her how happy I was that you are the new CL because you have such a positive vibe and energy and it makes the board a better place.
Good for you for dealing with your debt responsibly. I admire that for it takes tenacity and discipline. I bet you will come out of this as a stronger, more disciplined, and smarter person.
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Stacey,
I'm sorry to hear that things have been difficult for you. It's nice to see you here!
Jules
Been there, done that! Just remember, we ALL feel like that from time to time and it's nice to be able to be there for others when they are down and get it back when we need it. You are always good at being there for others - Don't forget to let us be there for you!!!!
(I probably shouldn't be shellin' out advice I don't abide by myself - but do as I say - not as I do! :p )
Hope things continue to look up for you - and we see ya around when you can stop in! :)
Thanks everyone.
Oh, honey, I know those moments of self blame. I was with one guy on and off for 4 years and I knew that I shouldn't be with him and that my friends and family were tired of hearing about it. When I finally ended it, I was just so mad at myself for staying with him for so long and I didn't want to talk to anyone about it because it was just my own fault.
Chin up! If you need some compliments - I am good at dishing them out. In fact, Shy will back me up on this - when I was having dinner with her in Kansas City, I told her how happy I was that you are the new CL because you have such a positive vibe and energy and it makes the board a better place.
Good for you for dealing with your debt responsibly. I admire that for it takes tenacity and discipline. I bet you will come out of this as a stronger, more disciplined, and smarter person.
Best to you
Mark
Ah .. financial stuff is one of my core fears... I can understand how it can affect a person... Take care and {{{HUGS}}} to you.
Mark
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