Stupid things irk me
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| Sat, 06-17-2006 - 11:21pm |
I met this guy on plentyoffish.com about 3 months ago, and we've talked on and off since then, just casually. We decided to finally meet 2 weeks ago. We got along great, he's adorable and funny and sweet, etc.
We went out 3 times in that first week, and had at least some sort of contact the other days (IM, txt msg, phone calls), for a week and a half. Very low key, not talking about "relationships" or anything, just hanging out.
Well, on Tuesday when I talked to him, I asked if he wasn't doing anything on Wednesday night, if he wanted to come over, b/c I was cooking for once. He asked what time I got off work, and when I said at 5, he said he'd call me then and let me know.
I didn't hear from him.
Then Thursday...nothing...Friday...nothing...then today around 3, I sent him a text that said, "You missed some awesome bbq pizza...whatcha been up to lately?"
And nothing.
So just now, at 10:30, he sent me a mySpace message that said, "Sorry I haven't called you...my brother took my phone with him to PA this week, and he just called to tell me you sent me a text msg..."
That's it.
So...I'm thinking, well, he said he'd call on Wednesday to let me know if he was coming over...and here it is Saturday and he knows that we've talked somehow everyday for almost 2 weeks...wouldn't you think that he would have e-mailed me or IM'd me before now?
And my thing is, even if he didn't know my phone number without his phone, couldn't he have gotten it from his brother out of his phone when he called, and call me from the house phone that his brother called him on?
I know it's small stuff, but I'm tired of guys who are all into you until you show some interest, then ghost. I'm sick of stupid little games.
Your take on it?

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LOL your welcome...I read the first post and then replied because there were too many posts to read through.
I almost didnt reply because I thought I would be off topic...looks like I was lol
"Just scoring well on a test is not an accomplishment and I don't see why I should be impressed by it. It's just as shallow to believe that someone should be valued for their natural intellectual ability as it is to believe that someone should be valued for their natural good looks. It's what one does with their intelligence that makes them worthy. Simpy having it makes them lucky, that's all."
And THAT is why I would rather be considered intelligent (in the applied sense of the word, not statistical) than sexy (which is just a physical response to physical beauty, imo).
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