A tale of two guys

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Registered: 02-15-2005
A tale of two guys
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Mon, 04-23-2007 - 10:11am

For guys wondering about what kind of impression they make:

I was out dancing with a couple of girlfriends Saturday night, and just had to post about two guys, for comparison's sake.

Guy #1. Nice looking, very well dressed. Walked up to us and just started this odd little shuffle back and forth thing...not really dancing. He had no expression whatsoever on his face. Didn't say a word...just tried to barge in on our little group. It was...creepy.

Guy #2. Just average looking, in a t-shirt and jeans. But so vibrant and fun. The longer we hung out with him, the more attractive he became. (No - this is not a guy I'd be interested in - WAAAAAY too young! LOL)

I guess my point is: guys who look at women as just fun people to interact with are going to be found a whole lot more attractive than guys who are so intimidated by social interaction that they are a complete blank in the personality department.


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Registered: 11-21-2005
In reply to: sisfox
Mon, 04-23-2007 - 10:54am

I totally agree!

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In reply to: sisfox
Mon, 04-23-2007 - 12:37pm

Was guy number one sober? I hate it when drunk guys come up to my friends and I on the dance floor. They are so hard to get rid of . . .

Excellent point, I agree! I am guessing that guy #2 probably had a bit more confidence than guy #2, too, which, is also attractive.




Edited 4/23/2007 12:40 pm ET by cfk_3
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In reply to: sisfox
Mon, 04-23-2007 - 12:41pm

I have no idea...what was so creepy was the complete lack of expression in his face.

Personally, I don't have any trouble getting rid of annoying guys, because I see no need to be polite to them. LOL