Telling dream last night

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Registered: 07-16-2001
Telling dream last night
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Sun, 03-25-2012 - 1:41pm
Yesterday was a difficult day for me. I felt like crap, I woke up with horrible pain in my heel, and then I found out my best friend's mom is not doing well and they are just trying to keep her comfortable right now.

So it's no surprise my dreams were active last night. I only remember one, but it was very telling. I was hanging out with friends, one of which was a girl I knew in high school but not too well. We had to go to this garage for some reason to talk to a guy who works there. As we left, I noticed there was no way to get out without jumping off a big concrete block. There was also a picture of a the friend involved- something about the picture was supposed to speak poorly of her boyfriend or husband. Anyway, I went back to the guy and asked him how we were supposed to leave. He promptly apologized and inflated some steps we were to go down.

We returned to the rest of our friends and discovered the incriminating part of the picture wasn't as it seemed. So we decided to go back to the garage and talk to the nice man who gave it to us. When we got there, I was suddenly alone and the man turned mean. When I confronted him about the picture, he hit a switch and a series of garage doors started closing, just like they do in the movies. I had to sprint and jump around to get out, barely making it through each one. At the end, I did get out and that's when I realized my friend had abandoned me. I immediately woke up terrified and couldn't get back to sleep.

It seemed really apparent to me that my brain is telling me that I'm terrified of getting sucked into a marriage with a man who seems nice at first, but changes abruptly and tries to trap me. After all, most of the relationships I've had in my adult life have been that way. At first, things are all great and then BOOM something hits that just makes him not marriage material.

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Registered: 07-16-2001
Mon, 03-26-2012 - 11:01pm
Someday...

I still have hope.
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Registered: 04-08-2008
Mon, 03-26-2012 - 10:35pm
One of the major reasons I come here is that I'm hoping to read your success story :)

Hugs,

Dee
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Registered: 07-16-2001
Sun, 03-25-2012 - 11:06pm
I have to have one give me a chance to find out, now don't I?

In the past, I've always been the one willing to hang on while the guys have given up. I think my fears come from my mom's relationships as well.
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Registered: 04-08-2008
Sun, 03-25-2012 - 10:35pm

I wrote a whole novel and erased it. I don't really want to share my experience here.

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Registered: 07-16-2001
Sun, 03-25-2012 - 7:51pm
My dreams are usually pretty strange and unexplainable. I wonder if that means I'm crazy!
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Sun, 03-25-2012 - 2:56pm
That's a really interesting dream. I never have interesting dreams like that anymore. I wonder if that means I'm dead inside, LOL.
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Sun, 03-25-2012 - 2:10pm

Wow... nice interpretation of your dream Shy.