Thanks to all!! It FINALLY happened!!

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Registered: 03-24-2005
Thanks to all!! It FINALLY happened!!
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Wed, 11-09-2005 - 9:11am

Hi Everyone!!

Well ... for those of you who are familiar with my posts the last couple of weeks - you'll all know that I was in a situation where I was interested in a guy and it was mutual - except nothing was happening and it really didn't look like anything was going to happen because there was an expectation that I would make the first move.

Well! I finally took things into my own hands and it all worked out beautifully. Last night, a whole bunch of us had gotten together to watch a hockey game. People started leaving one by one until his roommates went to sleep and it was just us watching the game. It took me about 15 minutes of silence - but i knew someting had to happen... so i did what i do best- i started talking about things lol I said to him that I have a problem... people all around are talking about things (meaning us) yet we haven't said anything to eachother. He kind of beat around the bush a little but then i started on a rant. I just said that if we have the same goal then things shouldn't be this complex and then he said that after this conversation they wouldn't be and commended me on how ballsy it was to even bring it up lol yup thats me! Long story short- he had to leave for work and i had to head home ... no point in starting something we couldn't finish ... so we left together and he went in for a kiss. A nice simple kiss... and i haven't stopped smiling since.

Thanks so much for all of your advice everyone! It took a while but i finally did something and I didn't have to make the first "physical" move afterall :)

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Registered: 06-22-2005
Wed, 11-09-2005 - 3:10pm
Good Job and Congratulations! I wish you luck.
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Registered: 03-20-2003
Wed, 11-09-2005 - 11:10pm

That's great! I'm glad that someone finally did something!


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Registered: 03-24-2005
Thu, 11-10-2005 - 8:38am
Yep!! Thank god something happened because its been great since. We were together last night and we'll be getting together again tonight. So much time was wasted in the first place so its almost like we're catching up. This is great! Thanks again :)