Things in the building just got interesting.......!!
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|Tue, 07-02-2013 - 9:59am|
As some of you may recall, there was a guy in my building who expressed an interest in me.......he invited me to a party at his place on Saturday night. Wow......it was interesting!!
I showed up......it was mostly his work friends but they were all (mostly) Eastern European and different nationalities. The superintendent showed up with another girl I know a bit, as well as another pretty blonde who moved in a couple of months ago. I kind of wondered what her deal was (e.g. single, maybe not working) and I was thinking of asking her if she wanted to hang out sometime (with her also being new in the building......possible friend).......but somehow she just seemed a bit standoff-ish or something.....not quite sure.
So we go to this party and we are all hanging out.....said girl was getting lots of male attention.......I didn't care too much......I was pretty much just hanging out with some guys in the kitchen. I'd seen them around a lot before so it was nice to actually chat and get to know them a bit, etc. I guess the guy who invited me - his brother and I were chatting (he is also very heavily Eastern European) and both him and a cousin were saying how they wanted me to be with "building guy" (their brother/cousin who was having the party).....as they thought I was of good character and he deserved someone nice. They said that they wanted me to be part of their family......very premature, but I think its partly a cultural thing and I was flattered (also realizing we were all drinking).
All of a sudden the other blonde girl freaked out about something (I don't know.....why....??). She became all violent and my super had to physically restrain her and bring her back to her apartment. Soo.......!! There was one other guy there who was sooo drunk......very heavy drinking......he sat on a kitchen chair in the living room and it basically broke......All in all it was a fun (but crazy!) night.......one of the other girls was DJ-ing, etc.......
Anyhow......"single guy" ended up leading me (willingly) into his bedroom that night......nothing transpired really as we both had been drinking.......the next morning I got up and just said good bye and left........something weird happened later that morning also.......I had showered and was taking my dog out and the "other" blonde girl approached me in front of the building in her pyjamas and asked me what happened......I told her I didn't see much. She basically said that all of these guys are related and they were giving her a hard time, that she wanted to get a restraining order, etc. (?? - that seemed absurd - ??)......."single guy" mentioned that she is taking that drug antabuse, so that was why she freaked out at the party.......?? I don't get it because I've read that if you're on that drug drinking is a huge no.......
Soo I was recovering yesterday and "single guy" was texting me repeatedly and asking me to come over for a coffee......his English is not that good......I agreed.......I went over to his place but it was very stuffy......I think his friends stayed and extra day and drank.......I wasn't feeling all that great so after the coffee I went upstairs to my own place. He did mention - "my brothers said that (other/freaked out blonde girl) is fine for a one night stand, but Mel is really a person to date long term......."
I'm not sure if he really likes this freaked out girl......he is younger than me (she is older than me but very naturally attractive......curly blonde hair, petite, etc.).......I may sound gay but I am more the 'cute' category now than beautiful........but he texted me (honestly) about 70 times yesterday......professing how much he liked me, even going on to say that hopefully I would be his future wife.......he asked me several times to go for a walk with him then called me later to see if I wanted to go to the 'cinema' (my super was going.....as it turns out she is married to his cousin), so I turned the offer down.
Anyway.......you can see where this is going. I do like my privacy and the thing is with me not working I've been trying to keep that under wraps but if I do see him I will have to tell him eventually (don't really want my super to know). He does seem very sweet but the texting and attention is waaay over the top.......it also scared me a bit that this other girl is having problems with this group of people (although something seems very off with her).......I don't want to do anything to tick off anyone in the building......obviously he has many friends and relatives here.......I could become enemy #1 very quickly.......
Ahhh!! I know I'm worrying too much.......he seems like a nice guy but over-eager. I guess in general with some of the weirdness that happened at the party and afterward I just kind of feel like heading up to my parents for a bit........I like my privacy here and I don't want it to be eroded.....it is a mixed area with various issues.......
That's me!! lol. Interesting week-end........any thoughts on how to possibly manage this situation would be appreciated......this guy lives a two minute walk from me (which is kind of why I was hesitant initially)...... :)