Things you don't want him to know..
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Things you don't want him to know..
| Sun, 12-11-2005 - 12:56pm |
Over to the right side, there's a link to a list- Ten Things Guys Don't Want You to Know- http://love.ivillage.com/lnsunderstandmen/whathethinks/0,,askmen_8c5wq0fh,00.html
I'd be pretty upset if a guy I was dating followed some of those "rules", but I also wondered if there's a similar list for women.

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* casual relationships (partners that are still in my circle of friends)
I dont want my BF to overanalyse everything I say to an Ex or a potential BF.
* problems with family memebers
Unfortunately for the number!! it is out there now I cant take it back! He knows I ve got v. few guys but he also knows I m working on it. I need to move to the 2 digit zone :)
Things I don't want him to know:
- Size matters to me as well, but for me it's height. I prefer not to date guys who are shorter than me - it makes me feel unfeminine.
- I don't want him to meet my family and friends until I know it's exclusive and I'm really into him. Honestly, I'm tired of introducing guys who are not "the one" to the most important people in my life. I feel like they get all excited, only to be let down when, once again, it doesn't work out.
AJ, enjoying life with C.
Size matters - and I will take the wallet, height, and *ahem* usual.
I have panic disorder as a result of a traumatic experience in high school (I was hit by a car while crossing the street and have had anxiety/panic disorder since). It is pretty under control at this point in my life - I have an attack about once per year. It does not effect my life too much and I don't want any attached stigmas, thanks.
My number. Also, how many of my current male friends were once boyfriends.
<<- I don't want him to meet my family and friends until I know it's exclusive and I'm really into him. Honestly, I'm tired of introducing guys who are not "the one" to the most important people in my life. I feel like they get all excited, only to be let down when, once again, it doesn't work out.>>
I completely agree. My friends and family give me a hard time about this but unless I'm pretty sure there's a future, I don't bring a guy around a lot. I'm glad to hear others think the same way.
I so relate to what you say about the OCD. I have intrusive thoughts sometimes - panic disorder and OCD are pretty closely related. Like you, I have a pretty good life and it does not really effect me very often. But who wants to deal with the possible reactions of sharing that information early on? NOt me!
Oh - and I snore too, so I should have added that. :)
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