tired of being called a Lesbian
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tired of being called a Lesbian
| Sun, 08-27-2006 - 7:29am |
I have a very muscular build to me. Sort of like Serena Williams.
Yesterday I was at a club with the girls and a guy buys me a drink. We dance a bit and flirt. While we are talking, he tries to touch me. I didn't feel comfortable with this and backed off. He then called me a lesbian. I am getting really tired of being called a Lesbian because of my physique. It's really unfair.
Yesterday I was at a club with the girls and a guy buys me a drink. We dance a bit and flirt. While we are talking, he tries to touch me. I didn't feel comfortable with this and backed off. He then called me a lesbian. I am getting really tired of being called a Lesbian because of my physique. It's really unfair.

I don't think it was your body that made him say that.
Mmh, I would die to have a body like Serena Williams! (smile) I don't think there is anything lesbian about her physique and if you have her body type; then you've "GOT IT GOING ON!!"
Feel proud of that physique -- I'm working hard trying to get there!
>>The lesbian comment is one of my favorites, along with, "what? don't you like sex?" <<
My current two favorites (both of which I heard from a guy at a bar Friday night) are:
- oh, I guess you're the shy type
- wow, don't you have a sense of humor?
I hear these two fairly often from complete strangers who try to yuck it up with me at a bar, and who get insulted when I don't laugh at their lame attempts at humor. Or when I don't do the dumb bimbo giggle/hairflip combo they were expecting.
I do get offended. But, after reading this thread, I think these comments are in the same category as the lesbian comment -- an attempt by men to hide their bruised egos.
AJ, enjoying life with C.
My favorite is the plain 'ol "witch" response.