Tired of being good!

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Tired of being good!
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Mon, 07-16-2007 - 10:59am

I've had this strange urge lately to be a little bit.....bad.

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Registered: 06-26-2007
Mon, 07-16-2007 - 9:36pm

"I can see it in you, though."

Seriously? :p

Yeah, I was still "kinda" bad back when we met up. And the bad girl is still in me... I just have to smother her to keep my good life! :)

Actually "bad" for me usually involved... alcohol and/or boys! NOT a good combination! And just to clarify... my "number" isn't that outrageous (take away from a recent post). I just enjoyed the flirting and the catch! :) Not that I needed alcohol to do it - but it helped!

Let's see what were some of my other wild moments... I got my left ear pierced a second time when I ran away from home at 15 - I got my belly button pierced when I was 17 (it's long since healed over now)! I flashed my boobs to a trucker when a girlfriend and I were on a road trip over senior spring break. My girlfriend and I use to get into clubs (underage) and one time we were the only two out on the dance floor acting totally silly together - but we'd had some Hot Damn so who cares! :)

Yeah... I've had my moments! Nowadays... bad is waiting until the last day to turn my quiz in for my class or choosing to take an extra long lunch without asking first - I'm such a wild child!

So, if you were to look at someone else being "bad" and you might be thinking "they are being bad" but also feeling alittle like... "that looks fun" - what would that look like to you?

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Mon, 07-16-2007 - 11:04pm

Bad for me has always involved alcohol and boys, too.

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Tue, 07-17-2007 - 8:42am

This reminds me of last summer.

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Tue, 07-17-2007 - 6:36pm

I use to pinch girls' butts in bars but that was in my 20s and happened only once (that I can remember LOL).

I have gone to strip clubs but with co-workers during lunch and only twice.

Internet porn? hmmm.. that's what drives commerce on the net doesn't it?

I have checked out CL but never got responses either the women-looking-for-men or casual-encounters. Truthfully I probably wouldn't follow through if I did get a response.

Hang in there cl214. Breathing deep, exercise, friends, and posting here are good ways to deal with that.

Mark

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Registered: 07-06-2007
Wed, 07-18-2007 - 12:03am
My experience ... nothing good comes out of being bad, at least not for me. I'm not good at being a criminal, liar, thief, etc. Everytime I even think bad thoughts, it comes back to hunt me. So, I learned to accept me for who I am and not what I think I can be. Stay focused and on the right path because some detours can lead to destruction. Just have fun being "You." And don't get me wrong, I truly understand what you're going through trying to live life the right way or as you say, being "good." God always win.

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