Tired of Being Single

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Tired of Being Single
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Sat, 11-19-2005 - 11:26am
I'm tired of being single, my biggest dating accomplishment was going on a second date in high school. I have being working on my financial life so hard since I graduate hs in '97 that I never really took the time to date. Now that I have finally gave in to my debt & file bankruptcy (discharge date is 01.17.05). I'm more then ready to start dating. I don't what to go to bars, because I really don't have the money. I was thinking internet dating. What site do recommend?


Dear Lord, Give me the strength to change the things I can, the grace to accept the things I cannot . . . anda great big bag of money! Amen

Jenny



"Love knows hidden paths."~~German Proverb

Jenny

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Registered: 08-13-2005
Sat, 11-19-2005 - 12:28pm
This is the advice you'll probably hear from everyone- get involved in some things that genuinely interest you and you stand a good chance at meeting some men. For example- book clubs, volunteering, running groups, etc. Even keeping your eyes open at coffee shops and grocery stores.
Get out there,cause the more time you spend out doing things, the more chance you'll have at meeting someone.
As for Internet dating- maybe try date.com or yahoo personals. Lavalife is pretty popular too.
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Registered: 03-20-2003
Sat, 11-19-2005 - 3:28pm

To be completely honest, I don't think you should attempt getting into a relationship until you are on your feet.