Too Much Emotion
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Too Much Emotion
| Sun, 02-11-2007 - 1:05am |
What can I do so that I do not invest too much emotion in a new girl? I understand that there are tons of girls out there, but I just cannot stop myself from emotional attachment. Help!

Let me ask you this: Does a lion get to know his prey before he attacks?
I am confused. I don't see how you can become emotionally vested in someone when you claim: "Perhaps I should be more open-minded and dig deeper into a girl's personality". What are you getting emotionally hooked on? Hmm? *Wink*
>>>What are you getting emotionally hooked on?<<<
The strong hope and desire that she will want you back and give herself to you. I think I suffer from the same problem. Whenever I'm talking to a girl, I too get fumbled up because I can't help but really hope she'll like me and I'm afraid of embarrassing myself in front of her. Then when she turns me down when I ask her out on a date, or more often, when I lose an opportunity to ask her out because I was too afraid, it really hurts because you were really hoping they'd take you.