Too picky?
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Too picky?
| Sun, 09-09-2007 - 7:09pm |
When talking about what you want in a man, some people seem to think women are "too picky". What exactly do they mean?
I have certain qualities I look for, as well as a few deal breakers. But sometimes I wonder if I am too picky.
Dealbreakers:
You want children (I dont)
You have a history of cheating/lying/controlling/abuse/criminal activity
You do drugs or smoke
Qualities I look for:
Self-sufficient ( you dont live with mom and dad)
Have a life outside of work
I find you attractive
Generally a "good" or "nice" person
We have at least something in common
You know what you want or at least have a few goals
What do you girls (and guys) think?

I think that the only time a person can be too picky is when they ask for things that they don't need in order to be happy.
The problem is that there aren't a whole lot of men who fit into the mold of a "good" guy who still have a set.
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Interesting comment.
The list also seems reasonable to me. Excluding Felons however . . very demanding. ((-: