Totally sick of this! (m)
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|Wed, 06-11-2003 - 11:06am|
Anyways, I'm having a bit of a problem with the "wrong" guys persuing me. I think I was on this board awhile ago explaining a really persistant guy back in the winter. I haven't heard from him since I sent him an e-mail telling him I wasn't interested. Well, another one has surfaced! This guy is from my hometown, and I haven't talked to him in like years! But the thing is, he's good friends with a boyfriend of a girl I know (not really a friend, haven't talked to her in awhile either) and one day I guess my name came up so this guy went full throttle in the pursuit of me. Great.
I'm so so sorry to have to say this, but he is not attractive. He is not physically attratcive, not mentally attractive, not emotionally attractive. It all started off as him messaging me on the 'net, which I said hi to him back because I haven't talked to this guy in awhile. He then turned all crazy! I'd be in "away" mode, and he'd keep messaging me "HELLO"...."HELLO ARE YOU THERE???". This would happen EVERY time! One day, I saw him come online, and he writes back "Fine if you don't want to talk to me I will leave you alone, goodbye" Jeez, like grow up a bit here! He was acting like a 3 year old!
Then....I told a bit of a lie to get rid of him. I was in my safe "Away" mode one day, he kept asking if I was there, then finally wrote me an e-mail (obsses much??). He asked me to do something that weekend. I told him I was going to visit my boyfriend. Okay, so I shouldn't have lied, but it worked for the time being.
This is the kicker - he told me that he figured he'd ask me out because I was single and BORED. How in the heck did he know I was bored, or single for that matter???!?!?! And BORED? What is up with that? Nothing like stereotyping a single person! As soon as I told the "lie", that weekend, people he knew, and it could be him for all I know, were circling my house to see if I was home. Funny how they haven't cared about me in years, but all of a sudden!
I'm just a little angry that I guy like this, totally not my type, would come out of the woodwork. It makes me feel all gross and not attractive enough to get someone I like, but I have to settle for the desperate, wierd guys. The funny thing is I know, just by knowing what kind of people that little group is, he right now is probably calling me a snotty b*tch because I won't fall all over him. I just know they are like that towards people who reject them. Instead of recognizing how strong he came off, he will turn it into my fault, and I am the scum of the earth.
GRRR! This is one of the reasons I stay single and very busy!
Thanks for listening!