Toxic Friends

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Wed, 10-10-2007 - 7:51pm

How do you get rid of them?


I am just noticing a TON of negativity being brought into my life by other people.

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In reply to: cl_shywon
Thu, 10-11-2007 - 12:56pm

I totally agree on being positive for complaining, blaming, and focusing on what is bad does not enhance my life.


10 Surefire Ways to Kill Your Crabby Mood

Having a happy day is well within your reach even if you are feeling totally down in the dumps. Being happy is a choice and there are things you can do to make it happen. Just like when you feel a decrease in energy, the best thing to do is to get your body moving - the same thing is true with cultivating happiness.


http://www.dumblittleman.com/2007/10/10-surefire-ways-to-kill-your-crabby.html


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In reply to: cl_shywon
Thu, 10-11-2007 - 1:16pm
You told me about the ignore option when I first returned to the board and the first response to my post was an insult from someone. Without that option, I might have left the board again pretty quickly!
The WeatherPixie
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In reply to: cl_shywon
Thu, 10-11-2007 - 1:19pm
I love that list. I wonder if I can anonymously leave it for my negative coworker?
The WeatherPixie
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In reply to: cl_shywon
Thu, 10-11-2007 - 1:52pm

"Oh, and for the record, I am a glass half full type. I'm not sure that's totally apparent when I come here."


Yep, it's apparent....whether you realize it or not, you give pretty positive and encouraging feedback to people.

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In reply to: cl_shywon
Thu, 10-11-2007 - 2:05pm
Thanks. I agree that negativity is contagious, and I'd hate to be a regular source for that.

AJ, enjoying life with C.

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In reply to: cl_shywon
Thu, 10-11-2007 - 3:29pm
tallgirl, i also think you are a positive person and a wonderful asset to this board! your advice always makes sense, and i actually have thought of you sometimes as encouragement, when i have felt down in the dumps
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In reply to: cl_shywon
Thu, 10-11-2007 - 5:29pm
"And I have to say- it's becoming harder and harder for me to read posts that paint dating and men in a negative light.
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In reply to: cl_shywon
Thu, 10-11-2007 - 7:07pm

I agree....occasional male-bashing is fine. Sometimes you just need to get it out.

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In reply to: cl_shywon
Sun, 10-14-2007 - 6:06pm

I wish I could just quit accepting invitations.

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Sun, 10-14-2007 - 6:58pm

Well, on a positive note, I spent time today

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