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Two kinds of people??
| Thu, 09-27-2007 - 10:09am |
My roommate (whom I like and am happy for despite this rant) came home this morning from a first date she went on last night with a guy she'd never before and was set up with.

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I used to be like your friend.
"My assessment is that some of us grow up and others don't.
"My assessment is that some of us grow up and others don't. Those of us women who grow up and become mature adults just don't quite attract the men anymore."
I hear you! It certainly feels like this! It seems that men only want the juvenile women or easy women who have no confidence in who they are. Hence, there are only a very small handful that actually appreciate worthwhile mature women. Ug, it does sound cynical, but there tends to be some truth in the subjects that people are cynical about.
But Kristen, when's the last time you thought, "Wow! That' guy's really mature!"
"The truth is that women do mature faster- both physically and emotionally- and we take on responsibility sooner.
"I do think that this love thing happens easier for some people, but I also think they will have a harder time in another area of life."
I agree with this statement! I'm in a relationship right now that I'm very happy in...but there are DEFINITELY areas of my life in which I have a hard time. A very hard time.
And I truly believe that sometimes you just have to be in the right place at the right time. Only problem is, you never know where the right place or when the right time is. It's kind of a "roll of the dice."
Edited 9/30/2007 9:22 pm ET by capegirardeau
Not strictly true. Around 14 I started growing like crazy, needing new sets of underwear every couple of weeks. The older ones simply couldn't contain me. By 16 I had reached full maturity and stood tall, heavily front weighted -- if you know what I mean.
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(This is the 15 yr old in me talking, for cls's info)
Edited 10/1/2007 12:01 pm ET by capegirardeau
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