unsure and wondering

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Registered: 06-16-2006
unsure and wondering
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Fri, 06-16-2006 - 3:26pm
I'm 29 yrs old and completely new to the world of dating. My last relationship (of 5 years) just kind of fell into my lap without me having to go through the dating process. Anyway, I very recently met a great guy that I'm seeing casually. We've been out on a few dates and have spent a fair amount of time together. Usually he's the one to call me to make plans to get together, but I was wondering if it would be out of line for me to call him just to say hi and see how he's doing, and if so, how often is just enough without becoming annoying? Perhaps a silly question but I'd love some input.
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Registered: 06-05-2006
Fri, 06-16-2006 - 4:14pm

No that wouldnt be out of line at all. You should call him. Im sure he would appreciate the thought.

Kalli
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Registered: 06-24-2005
Fri, 06-16-2006 - 9:55pm
I agree, call him. As for frequency, it depends on how often you go out. If you see him once a week, there's a chance you already talk to him once to set-up plans. So why not call mid-week, see how his week is going and to say hi. You'll be able to feel things out from there, maybe he'll say he'll call you, or he just will. Maybe he won't and you'll find out he's not a phone person, but you don't know until you try! Good luck!
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Registered: 04-13-2006
Sat, 06-17-2006 - 4:47pm

Coming from a guy, go ahead and call him. It seems from your post that you two are good friends so it isnt that big of a deal. ANd even if a phone call like that made him feel like you were coming on too strong or something which is how some guys act, then you know he's like that and you can move on...

It's very nice and sweet to call comeone to see how they're doing so he should like it.