Update on vacation guy
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|Sun, 09-08-2013 - 6:40pm|
I got an email this week from the guy on the vacation last week. He said that he is sending back some of the money that I paid to stay there because "it didn't cost as much as we thought." I think that was an excuse and maybe he felt bad that I left early (due to my best friend's mother's funeral) or he thought I didn't have a good time (or the 3some didn't work out, ha, ha). Then he said that maybe next year they could get better organized and have more people rent a house for a week--I am definitely not going to be one of them. But he said "We'll have to invite M(his GF)--she proved to be very useful." What a jerk! I mean, he has an offbeat sense of humor so I'm sure he was joking (and tone of voice doesn't show in email) but I'm sure if she saw that, she wouldn't be happy--it's like yes, we have to keep her around cause she did all the cooking and cleaning (plus sex at night)--I mean what more could a man want? I guess he really wouldn't want me cause I wouldn't be doing his cooking every night. I'd be saying where are you taking me for dinner? I've had 24 years of having to cook for my kids. I'd like a break.
In other news, there was a guy I met this summer at salsa dancing--did I mention him before? He's a lawyer and we get along very well. He's really funny & he's always telling me how much patience I have dancing with him cause he's a beginner. They used to have the dances outside on Mondays after work. Now they switched to Sat. afternoon cause they figure it's getting colder & darker. After the vacation fiasco, I was in the mood to give up on men and figured why should I even bother with this guy, plus I was going out to a dance on Sat. night & I thought it would be too tiring so I didn't go. We have exchanged some emails and I hadn't heard from him since the last dance 2 weeks ago, so I was just writing him off. So I got an email from him yesterday saing "we missed you at salsa." Yeah, who is WE? I'm sure that there was no one else besides him. Also the last time, I had parked on a different street & got a ticket at a meter and I thought the meters expired at 6:00 so I had told him that & I'd have to go back to check the meter. So he went to check the meter and said that it expired at 8:00--I'm impressed that 1) he remembered 2 weeks later and 2) he actually went to look. I seriously doubt anything will come from this more than friendship cause he is younger than me (8 yrs, but he doesn't know that) but I would like to have him as a friend.