URGH! SOME MEN!!

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Registered: 05-23-2006
URGH! SOME MEN!!
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Fri, 06-30-2006 - 1:18am

I was in a FWB relationship a while back. Things ended but we still chat sometimes.

So recently, he found something unusual down there, and asked me if I had anything. Now, I get tested regularly and I have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!

Well he recently told me that he is seeing a stripper! So I ask him if he has asked HER to get tested because chances are SHE may have something. But he said no and you know what his reasoning was? He didn't want her to think of him as a pig. I'm thinking "WTF?!! It's not about being seen negatively in her eyes, but it's about being SAFE!"

So, he just assumed that *I* gave him something, and he's not thinking twice about not asking his stripper girlfriend to get tested?! I'm f*&%ing insulted!!! What a PRICK!

Anyway our conversation online ended with me leaving 'cause I was just so mad. He doesn't know I'm mad though (I just said I had to go went offline). Should I have told him? Should I still tell him? Gosh! It really is pissing me off though!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 06-30-2006 - 12:04pm

I think you don't need "friends" like that in your life. I'd just block him and move on...why bother saying anything? He won't get it anyway...

Sheri

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Registered: 02-21-2006
Fri, 07-14-2006 - 5:19am
lol sorry i know its not funny.. yesah just 4get him, hes sleeping with a stripper hmm im sure you could do alot betterxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Registered: 07-15-2006
Sat, 07-15-2006 - 8:21am
I think you should explain your reasoning just to keep him safe. If you guys are still friends, which it seems like since things in the bedroom have ended, but you still chat, you really should. Wouldn't you want your friends to give you good advice? It should be no problem. If he reacts badly to what you have to say, then forget him! If he still wants to put up with getting STDs after your explanation, rather than asking the stripper to get tested, then that's his problem.