"we should get together"

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Registered: 05-11-2005
"we should get together"
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Mon, 01-29-2007 - 1:06pm
There’s a guy who works near me, we’ve chatted a few times and I thought he was so great. I hadn’t seen him in a few months, then I saw him a few days ago and we chatted for a few minutes, then he said “we should get together.” I said “yeah” but I looked away and probably seemed distraught, I was freaking out inside! Then he said “well see you later.” The opportunity was lost to just give him my phone number and get on with it! I think I can find out where he works, should I follow up somehow? What would I say?
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2005
Mon, 01-29-2007 - 1:16pm
Yes!
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Registered: 05-14-1999
Tue, 01-30-2007 - 11:39am
For what it's worth, I agree with Stacey's suggestion(business card).
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2005
Thu, 02-01-2007 - 2:26pm
Amazingly, he found me and left me a note! So we're going to get together on the weekend.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2005
Thu, 02-01-2007 - 3:55pm
Oh yay!
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-15-2005
Thu, 02-01-2007 - 3:59pm

That's great...and he made an effort to find you - which means he must really be interested.

You go, girl!


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Registered: 05-14-1999
Thu, 02-01-2007 - 9:44pm
COOL! Have fun.
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Registered: 07-17-2004
Sat, 02-03-2007 - 8:08pm

Iheartstrawberries,

This proves my theory that if a guy really wants to go out with you, he'll find you. Please give us an update on how it goes. We need more happy endings on this board.

Feisty

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Registered: 05-11-2005
Mon, 02-05-2007 - 4:21pm
Thanks for all your well wishes! It was nice. We have a lot in common and a lot not in common. He was very kind and polite. Now what? We parted with a hug and let's get together again, but no specific plans. Scary and thrilling!
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Registered: 07-17-2004
Tue, 02-06-2007 - 5:06am

iheartstrawberries,

Good stuff! From my experience, I've only dated one guy who plans for the next date whilst still on the date. Usually, they would ask me out with a follow up phone call. It is thrilling because it's taking you out of your comfort zone & you like him which is great! Well, keep us updated ...

Feisty