Well, I did it.
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| Fri, 04-20-2007 - 1:55am |
I have finally released my wishy-washy goober who wants me in his life, but only when it is convenient to him. In the 2 months that we've been together he has confused the crap out of me, left me hanging, and at times as been downright rude. He has had many moments of incredible sweetness, but I have finally decided that the good times were heavily outweighed by the bad. Although we had several phone converations, in three weeks he made no attempt to see me, except for the few times he'd call late at night to ask if he could "come over." Hmmmm...it has become clear that I was only his booty call.
I tried making excuses for him, and I even tried blaming myself....and I do have a problem with intimacy, but I don't think that had a whole lot to do with it. This guy is just another near-middle aged man who has commited himself to life long bachelorhood. He's selfish, arrogant, judgmental and rude.
I do regret that I ditched him through email, but this guy talks so much that I knew I'd never get it all out.
Sigh...I'm on my own again. Then again, I've been on my own the whole time we were dating. Only now there is no reason to stay up late to paint my nails or agonize over what he's thinking or feeling.
I hate dating. Do they let you be a nun if you have kids?

It sounds like you made a good decision. I'm sorry it didn't work out but better to let him go and move on than to continue to be frustrated, IMO.
And yeah, I hate dating too at the moment. Not sure about the nun thing though ;-).
Sheri
Sounds like you made a good choice. Better to cut your losses now than wait around for something to work, when it's obvious to you that it wasn't meant to work.
AJ, enjoying life with C.