What did he expect to gain?
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| Fri, 06-22-2007 - 1:38pm |
Ok. I had an odd/annoying experience last night. I got home from work, threw on some jean cropped pants and went out the door to walk my dog. I was walking down a fairly busy street near my complex (in the suburbs). A guy drives by in a Saab - business professional, well dressed. He proceeds to STOP his car next to me, roll down the window and yell "hey, I really like your badonkadonk in those pants." (but he didn't say badonkadonk).
He sped off before I even had the chance to react. Now, I have had men (usually construction workers or guys in pickup trucks) wolf whistle at me on the street, but this was a first.
My question is, what did he really expect to gain by yelling that out the window and driving away? He didn't wait for a reply, so it couldn't have been to get a rise out of me or an attempt to get a date.
Maybe he's hoping to see more cute badonkadonks on his drive home from work and he thinks yelling out the window will encourage more women to wear tight pants?
I don't know. Someone enlighten me. :)

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Smoke and mirrors.
So, what gives? Why'd you remove it? Too many fans?
It's amazing to me the attention I get driving my pickup.
Yes, I'm a girl.
And yes, I can handle this vehicle. And a tractor, too.
>>>No - it made me feel instantly sick to my stomach.<<<
I thought it probably was the case, but since you didn't say in the original post, I didn't want to assume...I still say that men who respect and like women, they won't say/do things to make her feel bad. Another reply stated that many women get hurt and or kidnapped being out on foot alone, a car suddenly pulling up to them and the like. There are life threatening ways that men treat women, (kidnap, assault, etc) But what you described is to me, the same mistreatment of the female sex, even if it wasn't life threatening as a kidnap or outright physical assault would have been.
>>I think guys' fascination with our backsides is underrated and overlooked for the breast fixation.
You are correct. I cannot speak for all men but I can certainly speak for myself. First of all, I am a very crude person. I am sure most men are to some degree or another but I definitely am. When I see sights I like to see, it will be hard to intellectually tell me apart from a dog.
Breasts vs @$$, what do *I* like? A$$, without question. Breasts are fine. As long as I can gently squeeze them or suckle on them, I ask for no more. Being able to cup would be a bonus. But my main focus is the posterior. Absolutely. When I see a shapely / proportionate posterior I like, mounted on well toned thighs and calves.. Ooooh, my upper brain shuts down almost completely and passes control to my auxiliary (lower) brain ! Happens quite often at the gym actually.
However the size and shape are critical. A way oversized butt can be just as repulsive (no offense to those possessing such) as proportionate butts are attractive. Given a choice between an oversized and an undersized butt (or even buttless with the torso mounted directly on the thighs), I would pick an undersized butt without another thought! So lets say in a purely fantasy world ..its important to keep this in mind - I am talking about a *purely fantasy/fictional* world here, if I had to pick between a slightly oversized butt and let's say TallGirlCo's ('buttless' by her own account), what would I go for ? Of Course TGC's ! For one thing, they would be much less obtrusive for rear mounting.
Edited 6/22/2007 5:04 pm ET by fruitedplain
AJ, enjoying life with C.
AJ, enjoying life with C.
My question is, what did he really expect to gain by yelling that out the window and driving away?
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I live on a very busy intersection in Miami. (One girl is from hear, 72ave and flager), and down the street there are like 10 apartment buildings. Girls walk / take the bus . . .just the nature of income in the area . . and they cant go a block without ten cars beeping at them. My daughter walked over to the Cuban restaurant, (a block away), one evening and along with all the nonsense, she was offered money on top of it. She wont walk alone here any more. And to the subject of safety, two men did try to get her in a car about a year ago, someone else stopped to help . . . .thank god.
I enjoy seeing a pretty woman as much as the next guy . . .but somehow a lot of men don't see that acting the pig is not way to meet her, much less get next to her. Just fools kid. I don't have an answer for you TG, it is one reason the "Target" conversation in another string was interesting and uncomfortable at the same time. At what point can you do your own thing without harassment. I grew up watching the "show" out front, women with kids and the things men did in front of those kids . . .not hard to see "wrong" in that for most people.
My thought, just losers, same guys that hit the strip clubs to meet girls . . .it's the only attention they know, and per other comments, not guys who have a high opinion of women in general.
What did he hope to gain . . . I have a feeling you need to think very low, and don't really want to know. Give him a yellow rain coat, call him "Chester" . . your in the ball park.
Very cute puppy by the way. (-: I want one.
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