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| Mon, 06-12-2006 - 11:06pm |
Ok, I went on this date with a guy who I went to school with but never knew. Well his sister and mutual friends kind of set us up and we went on a first date. His sister said he's really shy, so am I. We talked a lot in the car, went to a jazz show, then talked in the car on the way back. He hugged me goodnight and said if I wanted to go to dinner the following night to let him know.
Well, I ended up having a migraine and had to cancel but said I'd like to go out another time. The whole time I was wondering about him b/c I thought he was cute but there didn't seem to be any chemistry. Well I figured we're both shy so of course I'd give it another chance. We went out last night and had a great time! He hugged me and gave me a kiss on the cheek, which I am happy for since I just want to take things slow and he seems like a true gentleman. He said to let him know if I want to do something later in the week. So unfortunately there are all these dating rules I've never had to deal with b/c I am just use to the guy calling all the time, but he seems to only call every now and then DAYS apart.
Should I call him to set up a date? Should I wait a couple days to see if he calls? I'm not sure what my next step should be. I understand guy like the "chase," but I don't want to seem uninterested either. By the way, if I should make the plans should I pay this time since he paid the last two times? All advice would be great, thanks!

I'd be really turned off by his "whatever" attitude towards going out again.