What do I owe him?
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What do I owe him?
| Tue, 05-30-2006 - 11:32pm |
So I'm about to break up with a guy & I just have a question regarding what the "right" thing to do is because I seem to have a terrible, almost guy-like habit of messing this up. I've been seeing this guy for about 4 months now and just moved 2 hours away from him about 3 weeks ago. I wasn't sure how that would go, so I decided to keep the relationship going, figuring I could just go see him on weekends. Well, turns out I was insanely wrong - our work schedules don't quite mesh and all we could really work out is one night a week at his ridiculously uncomfortable, cramped place. And I pretty much decided I'm just not enough into him to make the commute & lose a night's sleep just for some so-so sex. So...now I have plans to see him this weekend, and frankly, just the thought of it makes me want to cry because I'm so tired from my new job. I really want nothing more than to just end it now & move on. I was going to just call him, cancel, and tell him I think we should break up, but I know for him it will seem like it just came out of no where. So is it ok for me to just do it suddenly like that over the phone? Or do I owe it to him to go see him in person? I know its probably the latter, but ugh...

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In person is best. I agree with Shy and KCole..its about the investment factor that people have in a relationship regardless of the circumstances.
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