What do men prefer....

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Registered: 09-04-2007
What do men prefer....
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Thu, 09-06-2007 - 7:47am

Okay so I've been wondering lately....

with the diversity of sizes and body shapes these days with women, what do guys prefer; skinny, curvy, or a little extra pounds when it comes to body sizes?? A size 2 or a size 10?? Also, is a big butt sexier than big boobs etc??

I guess what I'm trying to say (in a nutshell), is what do guys find most physically attractive in women these days??

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Thu, 09-06-2007 - 9:50am

Ask 100 guys, you'll get 100 different answers.


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Registered: 01-26-2006
Thu, 09-06-2007 - 9:57am
Exactly, same for women. I'm usually attracted to taller men, but typically not thinner men. Meanwhile, I have a friend that likes (usually) taller guys, but thin guys. I have yet another friend who likes shorter, thin to average guys. I could go on forever, but I'm sure you get the point. :)
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Thu, 09-06-2007 - 3:04pm
Breathing! ((-:
We in America do not have government by the majority. We have government by the majority who participate.
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Thu, 09-06-2007 - 11:45pm

::Breathing


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Fri, 09-07-2007 - 1:16am
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Fri, 09-07-2007 - 10:28am

Don't discount necrophiles.
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I am not that bad. (-:

Really, I don't have a "type", I just don't. Tall and skinny is cool, but that is just bias talking, I am 6'3" and all of 175 lbs. How can I not like my own?

The truth in real life, I can be extremely attracted to tall, short, skinny, chunky, . . right out of the gate, across the room totally attracted to a girl. For me it is all in her manner. I like a certain personality, it is kind of a friendly confidence, not ditsy, a serious enough grown woman . . you know? But happy, friendly . . . "pleasant". I am attracted to woman who "feel good" to be around. THAT is something you can see from across a room, it radiates.

So in a sense, "breathing" is the truth. (-: I have said it a thousand times by now, and will say it a thousand more . . .it is in the eyes and the smile . . windows to the soul. (-: Eye contact from across a room tells you tons. It is not a perfect system, it does not always mean she will be interested in being "nice" to "me" . . .but since I learned more or less what to look for I don't get the rude rejections. I almost always find I have spoken to a decent woman. My ex GF was like this, full of life. Not only was she the most pleasant girl I have spent time with in a LTR, she was one of the best lovers I have had as well. It wasn't mechanics, it was how much she enjoyed it, the same joy she showed in most things, great stuff when it does not just feel good but is flat out fun.
That "pleasant trait" can be attached to any body type, and many personality types . . . rich, poor . .a lawyer or a hairdresser . .. . It took me more than 40 years to really "see" what I like and what to look for, and it is in fact what I look for above all else. And I very often "see" it at the first moment of eye contact . . it is a look and something in the smile . .it really is easy to see.

We in America do not have government by the majority. We have government by the majority who participate.
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Sat, 09-08-2007 - 11:10am
I know guys who only like skinny girls and guys who specifically DON'T like skinny girls. I know guys who like boobs and guys who don't like boobs. I even know a guy who dated a thin girl who was a stripper for a few years, then a girl who was kind of athletic and neither thin nor big for a year, and now he's marrying a girl who's kind of heavy. I know guys who have had a certain type then meet someone who is totally not their "type" but they end up falling in love with that person. Etc. etc. etc. Sure, you can ask "experts" and read scientific studies that show this and that...but really, just be the best you that you can be, and there is more than one someone out there who will want to be with you.



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