What do you see sexy in a man?
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| Thu, 06-14-2007 - 12:33pm |
So you are single, you like to date and etc. What do you see sexy in a man?
While looking online and in magazines. There are tons of magazines like Maxim & FHM, but they are for men? What gives? Do you would you like to have a magazine like that see check out hot guys?
I also see online there are video bloggers and podcasters that are voted to be 'top hot women', but I never see anything for 'top hot men'? Would you like to see that too?
What gives? Do you women just not like that don't look at a magazine, watch a video blogger, or listen to a podcast because the person is not attractive (aka "hot") to them.
Sex sells and gets attraction to people to check things out and stir up interests.
So what do you seen man that is sexy that stirs up your interest to find out more? It is the looks, personality, everything or what? Give some good details!!
Nick Schmidt
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I am going to be so un-PC here, I hope not to offend.
What your suggesting sounds like it may have an audience, but I don't think it will be women if you get my point.
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Women aren't as cheesy as men. We, on occasion, can be shallow about choosing partners. "Top Hot Men" could be a fat, bald dude waving a big wad of cash sitting in a Porsche because there are ladies (let's be honest girls) who that's what is attractive. And the stuff we say about warm and funny, cr*p too!
Most of us women just settle for the rubbish that's out there to choose from. To be honest I can't think of anything any man could have that would be sexy unless you can show a psychologist's report that proves he isn't a whack job.
Good luck.
Beach
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Yea well I don't like it when the women are all about the money and etc either, but it happens..
FYI.. I'm not a wack job..
I'm not sure about 300 but weren't women all excited to see brad pitt in Troy?
Anyway I think there a difference in how women and men view each other. I think, from my experience, that men love seeing women totally naked, whereas women would see everything except perhaps the penis (for some reason seeing a mans penis doesn't turn women on). I guess thats why you see women enjoy checking out good looking men but not seeing male strippers.
And from my experience personality is the most important thing, although to be honest, if you asked most men who want a serious relationship, they would probably say personality is the most important thing in a woman also.
I think if you wanted a honest answer I would say that women are more visually stimulated that society believes, and men care more about personality than society thinks. IMO
>>I think if you wanted a honest answer I would say that women are more visually stimulated than society believes, and men care more about personality than society thinks. IMO<<
I agree with that on both counts.
Oh, and I like seeing a man I'm in love with totally naked. I have never understood why women say they are grossed out by seeing all a man's parts. Sure, I don't need to see *every* guy totally naked, but a guy I'm into naked - um, and in an especially good mood - absolutely a turn on. {blush - but it's true}
AJ, enjoying life with C.
Glad you appreciated my honesty. In my work personality test it did say I was very frank.
"Yea well I don't like it when the women are all about the money and etc either, but it happens..'
It happens more often than most of us women want to admit. It drives me crazy. Most women have a checklist of what they want, and then settle for what's there so they don't have to be alone or because they have a "life plan" they must follow, for example:
1. Graduate college by 24
2. Be married by 28
3. First child at 30
You know the drill.
Good luck finding out what women think is sexy.
Beach
Actually, I do enjoy seeing hot men, regardless of their personality, etc. BUT, I don't usually have any interest when it is marketed to me. Like when a magazine has a "Sexy guys!" piece or "Men you'll drool over" issue. I don't know why, but being told I should find someone sexy is something of a turn off for me. But a random hot guy in the undie ads (how embarrasing this is!) or on a display in the men's clothing dept. or a real life sexy man in the aisles of Target, those can have potential for me ... I like to be able to choose who I think is hot, not have someone else choose for me.
And, lovewise, it's really about connection for me, which is a highly personal thing. And love I think is more exciting and engaging that browsing for hot guys who I will never meet :)
Testosterone levels greatly influence our visual response. Since you are taller than average (5'9"), your relatively higher testosterone level (yes, women have testosterone too) could be making you more visually responsive than the average woman. I knew a woman I used to work with (regrettably not in a Biblical way), late twenties/early thirties, below average height, skinny and somewhat frail, who said who used to get positively grossed out by the sight of naked men, pictures or otherwise. Not hard to figure why.
Men on the other hand, speaking for myself at least, are EXTREMELY visual creatures. Back in my schooldays I remember the first time I saw a picture of a naked woman - she was laying in bed half asleep face buried under a pillow, with the crack between her labia just visible through the crack of her butt. I had palpitations like I cannot describe. Palpitations and partial paralysis ! Experiencing real women over the years seems to have done little to temper that sort of reaction, though they are not quite as intense now. Its just how we are. Men respond to raw visual stimuli. For as long as we are alive we will continue to be tormented by the sight of curves.
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>Oh, and I like seeing a man I'm in love with totally naked. I have never understood why women say >they are grossed out by seeing all a man's parts. Sure, I don't need to see *every* guy> totally naked, but a guy I'm into naked - um, and in an especially good mood - absolutely a turn on.
Edited 6/15/2007 10:04 pm ET by fruitedplain
I had to go find the article for 300 -- it originally appeared in the Chicago Sun-Times: http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_qn4155/is_20070308/ai_n18720031
Excerpt:
"...The studio didn't have a problem with the bloody sword battles in the film version of Frank Miller's popular graphic novel. It was more of a wardrobe concern. Most of the men wear nearly nothing throughout the entire film, making this movie appealing to those who don't give a fig about history or bloody action films. ...'I got, "What the hell are you doing? Are you totally insane? Can we put some clothes on these men?" Synder says.'"
Talk about double standard.
Is there a possibility that more sex can be sold to women? Probably, but does there need to be? :)
Frankly, I think if you want to sell something to a woman, you should appeal to her intelligence. The glass ceiling isn't that far in the past and there are (too many) places where it still exists. In some ways, years of being "the little lady" or "the pretty young thing" have made women a little more wary about being sold goods based on sex appeal. Overt or not, it can be a turn-off whether or not we actually process why we're not interested in the ad and therefore, the product. Just like another poster said she doesn't seek out magazine articles of "the hottest men" -- she resents to some extent that they've been chosen for her. Appeal to our minds and ability to think on our own.
If you want to sell sex, my suggestion is to keep going the pseudo-cologne ad route I described. It's still sex, just a different approach and it gets at more of what a woman might find enticing. As this thread and others have shown, physical beauty is a part of attraction, but most women want more in the package before they confirm attraction -- you can't successfully sell on possible interest.
What are you trying to sell via sex?
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