What do you see sexy in a man?

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Registered: 01-03-2006
What do you see sexy in a man?
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Thu, 06-14-2007 - 12:33pm

So you are single, you like to date and etc. What do you see sexy in a man?

While looking online and in magazines. There are tons of magazines like Maxim & FHM, but they are for men? What gives? Do you would you like to have a magazine like that see check out hot guys?

I also see online there are video bloggers and podcasters that are voted to be 'top hot women', but I never see anything for 'top hot men'? Would you like to see that too?

What gives? Do you women just not like that don't look at a magazine, watch a video blogger, or listen to a podcast because the person is not attractive (aka "hot") to them.

Sex sells and gets attraction to people to check things out and stir up interests.

So what do you seen man that is sexy that stirs up your interest to find out more? It is the looks, personality, everything or what? Give some good details!!

Nick Schmidt
Schmult.com

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Registered: 01-03-2006
Sun, 06-17-2007 - 11:42am
well I'm screwed then.. I'm 28 already.. single not even dating anyone yet..
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Sun, 06-17-2007 - 11:43am
sounds like you just like to see hot men in person more than in a magazine..
i feel the same about the women, but I probably wouldn't have teh guts to say hi to the hot woman if I see her..
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Registered: 01-03-2006
Sun, 06-17-2007 - 5:02pm

no.. i'm not trying to sell anything.. I was just wondering through my MBA experience and marketing experience, if sex really sells to women. It really doesn't.. from the looks of this discussion.

Plus I'm just trying to network to other people and just hear their opinions I love hearing them!

nick

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Registered: 07-11-2001
Mon, 06-18-2007 - 12:43pm

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Do men ever understand women? LOL

Actually, at the moment I choose not to date, because in the past I always relied on the good ol' chemistry bond. That's why none of my men ever fitted a type, except unsuitable.

There are people you meet and for some reason you just get that 'rush' when you see them. That attraction on a chemical level that we've all had that we can never describe.

Relying on this initial 'attraction' has landed me with very unsuitable partners. Alcoholic/drug addicts (ex-h), losers without real jobs and someone who was very violent and unfortunately towards me. And yes, I have a protective order in place for the next 2 years for that one and a couple of court cases coming up for domestic violence.

Since I make such lousy choices based on nothing more than initial physical attraction, I no longer know what is sexy about a man. I don't think men are too sexy to me at the moment.

Beach

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Registered: 07-11-2001
Mon, 06-18-2007 - 12:47pm

I am guessing you're a bloke, so no worries that's not your checklist! LOL So you're not screwed yet.

I'm even more screwed than you. I can promise. 37 yrs old, divorced, childless and on top of it extremely bitter. What a combination! ROFL

Beach

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Registered: 10-16-2006
Mon, 06-18-2007 - 12:56pm
Ok can some please tell me what ROFL means?
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Registered: 07-11-2001
Mon, 06-18-2007 - 4:13pm

Roll on the floor laughing. An even bigger laugh than LOL.

Beach

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Registered: 01-03-2006
Mon, 06-18-2007 - 5:52pm

yes I am a bloke!! thanks for the advice...!!!!

I'm sure you will be fine sooner than you think..

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Registered: 10-31-2006
Tue, 06-19-2007 - 12:43am

Oh good! I didn't want to think of you struggling over a vacuum ad with a male model and trying to make it work. :)

Visited your site afterwards and I'm sorry the Tag experiment didn't work out. But it did make me laugh.

Keep trying the yoga. ;)

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Registered: 11-21-2005
Tue, 06-19-2007 - 11:58am

I'm not really one to look through a magazine or the web for the sole purpose of checking out pictures of good-looking men.

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