What do you see sexy in a man?

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What do you see sexy in a man?
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Thu, 06-14-2007 - 12:33pm

So you are single, you like to date and etc. What do you see sexy in a man?

While looking online and in magazines. There are tons of magazines like Maxim & FHM, but they are for men? What gives? Do you would you like to have a magazine like that see check out hot guys?

I also see online there are video bloggers and podcasters that are voted to be 'top hot women', but I never see anything for 'top hot men'? Would you like to see that too?

What gives? Do you women just not like that don't look at a magazine, watch a video blogger, or listen to a podcast because the person is not attractive (aka "hot") to them.

Sex sells and gets attraction to people to check things out and stir up interests.

So what do you seen man that is sexy that stirs up your interest to find out more? It is the looks, personality, everything or what? Give some good details!!

Nick Schmidt
Schmult.com

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Tue, 06-19-2007 - 1:50pm

<i feel the same about the women, but I probably wouldn't have teh guts to say hi to the hot woman if I see her..>>

geesh, i went to your web site, and you are waaay cute! you could def. talk to a hot woman, or at least i know i certainly wouldn't mind if you struck up a convo with me in the aisles of target .. :)

i liked your yoga video, too - was that the first time you tried it? you did pretty dang good, esp. for a guy ;)

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Tue, 06-19-2007 - 2:12pm

Well then, if I get off work this week and see some hot women.. I will let you know what happens. However, there are none where I live and I'm thinking about going to Chicago for a few days too.. So if I see any there, I will like you know..

So I have to strike up a conversation in target? why? Isn't it a bad place to talk to girls while they are shopping? Don't they have their mind on shopping more than anything? I always thought it would be a bad place to talk to women, even though I have never done anything like that..

Yes it was the 1st time I have ever done Yoga. It is pretty easy stuff, hence I need some new ways to make it more difficult.

Nick

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Tue, 06-19-2007 - 2:24pm

Sounds like a lot of women check out men when the are 'out and about', but I never see women really checking on guys. Unless they are with their friends, look over at a guy, and giggle. Usually that means 1. they are checking him out 2. His fly is open and it isn't wearing any underwear..LOL

Nick

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Tue, 06-19-2007 - 2:48pm

but I never see women really checking on guys.


That's because we're sneaky about it.

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Tue, 06-19-2007 - 4:01pm

>>So I have to strike up a conversation in target? why? Isn't it a bad place to talk to girls while they are shopping? Don't they have their mind on shopping more than anything?<<

Did it ever occur to you that maybe we're out shopping because we're bored and might be hoping to see a cute guy or two? If one of those cute guys actually took the time to come over and say hello, that would make my day.

I have told a friend of mine that it is my dream to meet a guy "during daylight hours while I'm doing something mundane." Target, Saturday afternoon. I'm there. :)

Um, and I second what Shy said. We most definitely check out guys, but are sly about it. I just checked out about 15 guys on my lunchtime walk, but none of them knew it. ;)

AJ, enjoying life with C.

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Tue, 06-19-2007 - 4:03pm

so you are saying women are checking out the guys back? and butt? only?
LOL

Nick

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Tue, 06-19-2007 - 4:31pm

oh.. yea.. I guess. I have thought of that for just a few seconds, but women just love shopping so much sometimes they use it to get away from guys too. LOL

Hmm Good point that it may make your day.. I will have to think more positive about things like that later.

However sometimes I have a eye for the too young crowd.. I don't know why, but it just happens.. GRR..

so you did check out guys during lunch.. tell me some of the 'sly' moves you ladies do to see if I have caught people like you or not..

sometimes if i catch a girl looking, she just looks away really quick.. You never really know what to do with that...I usually just wait a few seconds to see if she looks back.. which usually happens.

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Tue, 06-19-2007 - 5:43pm
Apparently the grocery store is my man magnet place it seems like anytime I am grocery shopping I have guys checking me out, smiling at me, talking to me etc. I go at 7 am on a Sunday so maybe because there aren't a lot of people around they feel more comfortable approaching I don't know.

Smile,

Deirdre

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Tue, 06-19-2007 - 5:51pm

I HATE shopping. Hate it. If I'm shopping, it's usually because I'm bored or I desperately need something and HAD to go. :) I may not be the norm, but don't just assume that all women are "in the zone" when they're shopping. Plus, all the dating books tell women to meet men where men hang out -- next time you're in Home Depot and see a single girl, it's worth assuming she wouldn't mind a hello from you. (When I'm there, it's because I have a home project, but I wouldn't mind leaving with a phone number, either).

As for slyly checking out guys... I work downtown, so there are a lot of people-watching opportunities. Generally, I'll spot a guy from a block away and check him out before he even has a chance to see me. Sideways glances at the crosswalk. Pulling up a chair and a good book at the local outdoor cafe, but I'm not reading. ;) It's one of my favorite pasttimes. :) (I like people watching in general, not just checking out the cute guys, but of course I notice).

Once in awhile, and I'm working on this, I actually get brave enough to make eye contact and give a guy a flirty look.

AJ, enjoying life with C.

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Tue, 06-19-2007 - 8:28pm

it wouldn't *have* to be target, but if a cute guy ever did flirt with me in target, i would LOVE it! lots of times i go to target because i'm bored, i have one thing i need but feel like strolling around looking at towels, shoes, clothes, shampoo, people, etc. :)

i think i check out guys pretty sneakily, too, and i am def. guilty of looking and then shying away as soon as eye contact happens. actually, that happened when i was in target just the other day ... what's with that? i don't know why i avert my eyes so quickly - it's like looking directly at the sun or something :) but really, i think i mean it to mean, "you are SO cute, you make me blush and feel shy! but make me look again!!"

anyhow, have fun approaching hot women in chicago. i'll be there myself for the first time in a couple of weeks. maybe i'll make direct eye contact with a cutie while i'm there!

oh, and with yoga, there are plenty of crazy hard things to do!! plus, just trying to do the simple poses with exact precision, even breathing and calm can make it much more challenging.

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