What is he doing? need advice
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| Thu, 10-06-2005 - 11:14am |
hi everyone, im just wondering why some men have such a problem with phoning women back, or is it just a excuse, a easy way of letting you down. I recently slept with this guy who i have known for a long time he is actually my brotherinlaws good friend, so we kinda always knew eacother. Than one night we were drinking he was pissed out of his tree and he started telling me how much he really likes me, blah, blah, all the sweet things, to get me in the sack, i fell for it cause i really thought he meant it. So than after that wild night with him, i seen him about a week later and asked what was going on with us, he said he would like to get to know me better...okay so than that night we slept together again.lol....i know, retard me.
So after that we went our seperate ways, he has not called once and were both busy working, its been a few weeks since i have talked to him. Im never home and he is always out in the field farming. When i did ask why he hasent called our last night together, he said he has been really busy and that he did try to call once, which i think is bull, cause i know for a fact he has had a few days off. I just dont know..my sister said he is probably scared cause a few years ago a girl broke his heart and he cant really trust anyone, she figures he is just being cautious, i think he is avoiding me...Should i just quit wasting my thoughts on him and move on, cause i do like him...can anyone help me out here?
thanks

I know there's some sarcasm there but you just need to look at this as a learning experience and work on letting it go.
thank you all so much i needed to hear that, i do need to move on cause im sick of wondering what he is doing, and if its always gonna be this way no thanks! and if he even even thinks of asking for another "night" he can go to you know where, lol.
thanks again =)