What if you (female) see someone u like?

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Registered: 10-07-2005
What if you (female) see someone u like?
Fri, 05-12-2006 - 1:09pm

Sometimes it's really difficult to meet someone you have feelings with! There are some people like to go out with you, or even want to be in a serious relationship with you (part of what you are looking for) however, you don't have feelings with them!! That's really "pitty"!! You wish this person can be turned into someone else you like, but the reality is, the ones you like wouldn't get inot a relationship with you!!

Ok, my quesiton is: what if you meet someone in a party, or you see him in a gym pretty often, or you see him in your class, or he's one of your friend's friend, you feel you like him, but he doesn't know you, yet, he doesn't come talk to you and you are very shy to intruduce yourself to him (or seems too obvious!) How can you get him noticed and make him to come talk to you, or how can you get to know each other?

Any ideals?