What Men Notice When They First Meet You

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Fri, 08-03-2007 - 1:47pm

What Men Notice When They First Meet You



From highlights to heels, guys reveal what works--and what doesn't


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Fri, 08-03-2007 - 7:37pm

Who is this guy?

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Registered: 10-14-2003
Fri, 08-03-2007 - 8:06pm

For real,

I read that and gafawed. I'm NOT wearing heels for any extended length of time (like over 10 minutes). They HURT. I don't care a rat's behind how I look in them. Get over it.

I can go along with the hair thing. I look dreadful in short hair. It would be easier to have short hair, but it looks terrible on me. So I have long hair. That's easy enough.

But heels? **** no.

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Fri, 08-03-2007 - 9:25pm

I can wear about an inch and a half before my feet start to kill me!


I usually keep my hair below my shoulders, but not because guys like it.

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Fri, 08-03-2007 - 11:22pm

Here's a link to an article on the author.

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Sat, 08-04-2007 - 12:40am

Barf.

Gay. And so far back in the closet he's seeing polyester bellbottoms.

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Mon, 08-06-2007 - 12:18pm

Oh man, Boston...I'm embarrassed to see that this guy is from here. :) And the fact that he was taking home 22 year olds at 16....thye must have been some LAME 22 year olds, that'd be the DAY that I'd go home with a guy that even LOOKED remotely close to 16. I really just want to meet and reject guys like this. It'd be quite fun. :)

As for high heels, I have to say, I love mine...people think I'm crazy walking on them, but I have to tell them five million times, I'M USED TO IT, haha. Maybe it subconsciously has something to do with being short, but I think it's more about my personal style. I just LIKE high heels and no, they don't hurt. I've walked (literally) miles in my heels...it's just my thing. :)

**edit: Ok, the more I'm reading of this, the more my blood pressure is SKYROCKETING....this guy is an a**!! I really, REALLY want to meet him in a bar, I'd take him down about 20 pegs if I could...all women like bad boys...BS. DUH he meets the women who do because he IS one.

F-ing idiot.




Edited 8/6/2007 12:23 pm ET by cml7721
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Mon, 08-06-2007 - 12:24pm

I would LOVE to see you shoot this guy down at a bar!

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Registered: 01-26-2006
Mon, 08-06-2007 - 12:34pm

I have to say, I do my share of shooting down. Oops. :) In all seriousness, it's usually guys like this moron that think they can pick up any girl in the bar. I've had guys get pissed off at me before because I won't talk to them. How about being NICE and not just randomly dancing with me or asking me sports trivia for 20 minutes (I like sports, but seriously now)?? You're not ENTITLED to a girl talking to you in a bar, so get over yourself.

Sorry, this really just got under my skin. :) He's NOT even that attractive! And I'd much sooner go for the guy in the button down or suit than a guy in "NASCAR meets cowboy" or whatever the hell the calls it.

Yeah, heels used to hurt my feet slightly more than now, I think I just wore them enough to get used to it, mostly in high school when big, chunky platforms were in, haha. :)

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Registered: 06-09-2007
Mon, 08-06-2007 - 12:44pm

wow that guy is a jerk, "you get in their head to get in their bed" yuck what publisher decided that a 41 year old single guy with such issues would be able to sell a book? he is single for a reason and its not because he's hot thats for sure- who decided he knows woman? or what men want-

I would never give this book a look at the book store.

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Registered: 01-26-2006
Mon, 08-06-2007 - 1:29pm
Ok, that guy put me in a nasty mood, lol. It's Monday anyway, which doesn't help, but now I'm just being pissy even with guy friends that haven't been on their best behavior lately...and the guy that I dated last summer (but am pretty much over now)'s ditzy "Heiress" new girlfriend is coming up to visit him BUT he still flirts shamelessly with me (I no longer read anything into it nor do I reciprocate it much anymore). I'm just...irritated. And have very little faith in men (at the moment, it'll change tomorrow, haha). And on the warpath. If one of these guys pisses me off today... God help them... :)

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