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| Thu, 10-27-2005 - 7:46pm |
Ok....I am new to boards....Have a question...some advice appreciated
ok ever since I ended a relationship few mos ago some guy at my office job has been way more flirty ..he is a flirt to begin with,but he has gotten more flirty with me.
He has hinted he would like to hang out...but because of work and different schedules and what not it never happened..and when he first suggested couple times I really didn`t say much..I got out of a bad relationship and was hurt bad.
well he recently again asked me when are we going to hang out..i told him i don`t know,since I was in a car accident and wasn`t driving right now...he recently lost his car too,not to an accident he needs a new vehicle...so anyways at my job,we have Christmas parties every year,and there is a list and we have to sign up and write if we are bringing a guest..well he has by his name +1 meaning he is bringing someone....he is always complimenting me and asking me if I wanna get together and play pool or something.Last year he brought a friend that used to work there,girl,but just friends..so it could be that..well what would you do?maybe i will find out anyway.maybe he is just some jerk who flirts way too much
Edited 10/27/2005 11:48 pm ET by l0stprophet
ok ever since I ended a relationship few mos ago some guy at my office job has been way more flirty ..he is a flirt to begin with,but he has gotten more flirty with me.
He has hinted he would like to hang out...but because of work and different schedules and what not it never happened..and when he first suggested couple times I really didn`t say much..I got out of a bad relationship and was hurt bad.
well he recently again asked me when are we going to hang out..i told him i don`t know,since I was in a car accident and wasn`t driving right now...he recently lost his car too,not to an accident he needs a new vehicle...so anyways at my job,we have Christmas parties every year,and there is a list and we have to sign up and write if we are bringing a guest..well he has by his name +1 meaning he is bringing someone....he is always complimenting me and asking me if I wanna get together and play pool or something.Last year he brought a friend that used to work there,girl,but just friends..so it could be that..well what would you do?maybe i will find out anyway.maybe he is just some jerk who flirts way too much
Edited 10/27/2005 11:48 pm ET by l0stprophet

If he's actually interested in dating, he'll ask you out on a DATE and not to "hang out."
I agree with everyone...sounds like he's just a flirt. Give yourself some time to heal and clear your head. The rebound thing never ends pretty, especially with someone who's probably just looking more for a good time than something real. And especially if you work with the guy. Hang in there!
Veena :-)