What would you choose?
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| Tue, 11-08-2005 - 11:00am |
If you were in a relationship, and you had to choose between one of these two options, which one would you choose?
A) A man who satisfies you emotionally in every aspect possible. He treats you like a woman should be treated and you never doubt his love for you. But on the other hand, your are not satisfied with your sex life with him at all.
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B) A man who satisfies you sexually in every aspect possible. It is the best sex you have ever had in your life. But on the other hand, he doesn't satisfy you emotionally and isn't as sweet or caring as you would like him to be. He isn't romantic and sometimes can be distant with you.
Would you choose to be satisfied emotionally even if you have to sacrifice your sex life for it? Or would you sacrifice your feelings for a great sex life?
Just curious...

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I would choose A. Because sex can be learned and worked on and it takes TWO to make a satisfying relationship. If I'm not getting my needs met in bed, I'd be sure to tell him and help him along. He has a strong enough ego and willingness to be sure ALL my needs are met that it would actually bother him more if I didn't speak up. To be a passive participant in life is to perpetuate your own cycle of unhappiness.
Rubyshoes
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