What would you choose?

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Registered: 06-22-2005
What would you choose?
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Tue, 11-08-2005 - 11:00am

If you were in a relationship, and you had to choose between one of these two options, which one would you choose?

A) A man who satisfies you emotionally in every aspect possible. He treats you like a woman should be treated and you never doubt his love for you. But on the other hand, your are not satisfied with your sex life with him at all.

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B) A man who satisfies you sexually in every aspect possible. It is the best sex you have ever had in your life. But on the other hand, he doesn't satisfy you emotionally and isn't as sweet or caring as you would like him to be. He isn't romantic and sometimes can be distant with you.

Would you choose to be satisfied emotionally even if you have to sacrifice your sex life for it? Or would you sacrifice your feelings for a great sex life?

Just curious...

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Registered: 11-01-2005
Tue, 11-08-2005 - 10:07pm

I would choose A. Because sex can be learned and worked on and it takes TWO to make a satisfying relationship. If I'm not getting my needs met in bed, I'd be sure to tell him and help him along. He has a strong enough ego and willingness to be sure ALL my needs are met that it would actually bother him more if I didn't speak up. To be a passive participant in life is to perpetuate your own cycle of unhappiness.

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Registered: 10-29-2003
Tue, 11-08-2005 - 10:54pm
I would chose A, it could change to normal back again, if he know what you like & desires. You can show him, what you likes & dislikes. Some guys, need to be taught, what please you, because not all woman are alike. Just like every guys is differents, but it a learning process, when you have a sexual realtionships with a guy. A realtionship has many challenges, & this just one of the major ones.
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Registered: 11-08-2005
Tue, 11-08-2005 - 11:15pm
hi if i was in your situation i would choose A) i think i have that kind of man in my life right now!

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