What would you do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2003
What would you do?
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Tue, 04-11-2006 - 7:50pm

I go to the gym every morning. I m usually very serious about my workout and dont chat with anyone there.
There is this one guy that pikes my interest. I know he notices my presence because he keeps looking towards me but he does not smile nor chat. so cant tell if he is interested or just looking!!
There are many instructors in the gym in case help is needed so I cant pretend I need his help using some machine.
How can I tell if he is interested? and how do I show him I m interested too?
I dont like to approach him kuz he might be attached and just interested in looking.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
Tue, 04-11-2006 - 8:42pm

I can identity with the guy you are speaking of. Often I look but cannot figure out what to do, and before I know it, she is gone.... Anyway, who cares if there are instructors? You just want something to break the ice, so ask the guy for help.

If he is interested, he will be looking at you with wide eyes and a drooping jaw. Possibly he will be hunching his back a little bit too. Hope this helps and good luck!