what would you do?

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Registered: 10-07-2005
what would you do?
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Mon, 10-24-2005 - 8:04pm
You go to your company's gym almost every day, and you always see these hot guys there. (At least I think they are :P) And you seem have crush on them (or one of them), however, you are shy, and no chace to talk to him, and he hasn't talked with you neither. And you think he's not married (no rings on the hands). You think it might be a good opportunities to know someone. What would you do?
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Mon, 10-24-2005 - 8:51pm

Smile from across the room and maybe say hi.

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Registered: 04-13-2004
Mon, 10-24-2005 - 9:14pm
I agree. I would smile, say hello and make it easy for them to approach me. But I would leave it up to them to come to me. In my years of dating, 99% of the time, guys need the ability to chase a woman. I don't know why, but you gotta let them come to you.
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Registered: 10-07-2005
Mon, 10-24-2005 - 9:18pm
I agree. But they dont' smile at me or look at me or say hi at me :(
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Registered: 10-24-2005
Mon, 10-24-2005 - 9:38pm
I would walk up to the guy and ask a question about a machine, even if you already know the answer. Guys love that stuff, any chance to help out a woman and make him feel like a hero. P.S. My guy once told me he loved to "spot" women at the gym because it was always a great view of their cleavage. It could work!!
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Registered: 09-01-2004
Tue, 10-25-2005 - 9:28am
A Nobel prize winning Adonis could be on the machine next to me at the gym and I wouldn't look at him twice. When I am there, I am intent on working out and don't want to be bothered. Plus, I am all sweaty and gross. I am just not in a place mentally to flirt and meet new people. Maybe these guys feel the same way. I am not saying that you shouldn't flirt a little, but I think that the venue is important. Once I have showered and am on my way down in the elevator or walking out the door, I am all smiles and noticing. Maybe that's a better time to send a wink or let them hold open the door for you and give a sincere smile.