What you want vs. what you need

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Registered: 03-20-2003
What you want vs. what you need
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Wed, 06-21-2006 - 11:19pm

Do you ever think that what it seems like you want in a relationship/mate isn't what you really need?


Here's an example, which is entirely fictional and is not based on any person, real or imaginary.


Let's say there's one guy- he's spontaneous, good looking, great smile, fun to be around, laid back, spends time doing all the things you've wanted to do, yet never had the nerve.

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Thu, 06-22-2006 - 11:47am

I think that being opposites is important in some areas.

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Thu, 06-22-2006 - 11:50am

I think we're all looking for that magic combination of fun, stable, spontaneous, etc.

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Registered: 06-19-2006
Thu, 06-22-2006 - 3:50pm
I agree. But I feel too many people settle, instead of waiting for that perfect combination.
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Registered: 04-11-2003
Thu, 06-22-2006 - 4:13pm

"The guys in the middle seem to be already taken.

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