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| Thu, 05-11-2006 - 4:21pm |
Hi, everyone,
I know this is a great web site. I also got many good suggestions in the message board area. I hope anyone can give me some suggestions (again) this time!! Sometimes I am just too confused....
anyway, here is the story:
My relatives helped me to arrange a bland date. We've been already communicating with each other by email and phone for 3 months now, yet we just met each other 2 weeks ago (We are long distance). I don't know how the feelings should be developed, but I don't have much feelings for this guy, it's not because his personality (he seems polite, treat me nicely) nor his career (I think his career is not bad at all!) But maybe b/c of his appearance (not "handsome" to me, yet he's tall). I know sometimes the appearance is not important at all in the relationship, personality and other inner stuffs do matter! Thats why I am confused here: should I continue to see him or I should stop seeing him?? He told me he likes me and wants me to be his gf. I told him he's a very good guy, but deep down I know I don't have feelings for him! (I think it's also my main probblem: I don't have feelings with some guys who liked me who treated me well b/c of their appearance!!!)
And at the same time I have this fear: I am already close to 30 and I am still single!! I do want to settle down, find someone to spend my life with. I am afraid what if I "dump" this chance again, I would never had any chances to be in a relationship!! (My couple friends already put me in couple dates, and it didn't work out for me......)
What should I do? Please advise!! I really appreciate it!

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