What's the secret?
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What's the secret?
| Thu, 06-14-2007 - 11:59am |
Why is it, when I talk to my ex girlfriends, they never tell me their current dating status. Are they ashamed of being single, I assumed they are.
One of my friends is pregnant and for some reason she does not want me to know the name of the father. It can't be a friend of mine she does not know any of them.
Why so secretive?

Why is the name of the child's father relevant to you?
I might not necessarily go babbling to everyone I know the father of my child especially if he and I are not a couple anymore.
Smile,
Deirdre
Because you're an ex and it's none of your business anymore.
If I might ask? Why exactly would you want to know?
I wish the best for those in my past . . .but details? Why would I care unless they had a good and valid reason for telling me?
Keep your eyes forward, not behind you.
and its none of your business.
If it's more than one ex, I'd say they're trying to avoid hearing you bash their dates, tastes, choices, or fathers of their babies.
One ex might be ashamed, but more than one? Seems odd. You might not mean it, but it's possible you come off as judgmental and they don't want to go there.