Whats your love personality?

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Whats your love personality?
Thu, 04-03-2003 - 12:22pm

Dee, your love personality type is ESTJ

About 12% of the U.S. population possesses the combination of traits that make up this personality type.

Being an ESTJ, you can stand out from the crowd for all kinds of reasons. Among your unique qualities are strong determination and a sharp mind. Together, these traits often mean that an honest day's work isn't likely to strike fear into your heart. On the contrary, you're one who can truly appreciate commitment to a job well done. This steadfast nature usually carries over to your relationships as well; you're rarely one to run off because things have gotten tough. This is an admirable quality. Your philosophy of relationships appears much like your work ethic. You're the kind who believes that what you put into a relationship is typically what you get back. Because of this no-nonsense approach, you aren't the type to overwhelm others with your warm and fuzzy ways. However, when people want to hear truth, they should knock on your door.

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Thu, 04-03-2003 - 12:52pm

Thimble, your love personality type is ENTP

About 4-6% of the U.S. population possesses the combination of traits that make up this personality type.

As an ENTP, you can be the life of the party. Most people are apt to be immediately taken with your enthusiasm and friendly nature. You're the kind who always seems to have a good story or anecdote on hand to reveal your charm and wit. However, that's not to imply that you're simply a jokester. You also seem to enjoy thinking deeply and creatively on any number of topics. ENTPs like you can have a knack for coming up with novel ways of looking at the world. This usually makes your type more open-minded than lots of other people are. Your rare combination of social skills and common sense can make you a winning catch. In relationships, part of what often excites you is sharing your ideas about the world. You can be one smooth talker and at times, a masterful negotiator. You also seem to be the kind of social person who can make friends in a roomful of strangers. This is a rare talent.


the life of the party stuff is so not me... neither is smooth talker/masterful negotiator.

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Thu, 04-03-2003 - 5:00pm
Shy, your love personality type is INTJ

About 2-3% of the U.S. population possesses the combination of traits that make up this personality type.

Being an INTJ means that you can be a real intellectual powerhouse. Chances are that your mind is almost constantly engaged by one fantastic thought or another. Because you're the kind who is highly creative, keeping up with you can be like riding an intellectual roller coaster. But your zest for life usually goes beyond your own big ideas and endeavors. You can take real pleasure in helping others to reach their dreams as well. As a result, INTJs like you can be wonderful coaches to help people attain their goals. You seem to know how to bring out the best in people. In relationships, your type is known for deeply valuing your commitments. Not the kind to be an open book, you're often hesitant to share your feelings with others - especially in the early stages of a relationship. You may take a long time to admit the depth of your feelings for someone. It may also take some coaxing to get you to share personal details about your life.

***I'm not so sure about the first part! I'm not feeling so creative or zesty right now. The rest I'd say is pretty accurate.

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Thu, 04-03-2003 - 11:21pm
i just reread yours and go's and realised that all 3 fit me...

lol. reminds me of fortune tellers for some reason ;-)

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Thu, 04-03-2003 - 11:48pm
judico, your love personality type is ISTJ

About 7% of the U.S. population shares the combination of traits that make up this love type.

Being an ISTJ means that you are one cool customer. Although few would describe you as being warm, cuddly, or sentimental, many people likely see you as an important source of support in their lives. That's because when things are chaotic or falling apart, you're the type of person who can be virtually unflappable. ISTJs like you are known for being talented problem solvers. When it comes to your relationships, you usually know how to speak up for yourself so that others know what you want. But that doesn't mean you're rigid or inflexible. In fact, you're quite willing to bend for the right person. They just need to make their case honestly.

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Fri, 04-04-2003 - 7:23am
andy, your love personality type is INFP

About 3-4% of the U.S. population possesses the combination of traits that make up this personality type.

Being an INFP means that like a walking encyclopedia, you can be an incredible resource of information. In fact, people of your type have such a diverse array of interests that others probably see you as a real Renaissance person. More than many people, you appear to have the gift of being able to think with your head and your heart. This can make you a compassionate individual. In addition, although you may not necessarily be religious, chances are you're deeply in tune with your feelings and spirituality. Being conscious and creative can be vital aspects of your identity. Given your passionately held beliefs, you're not the kind of person who is going to easily lose sight of who you are.

In relationships, you're the kind who is able to fulfill both the roles of a caring friend and a romantic partner. You don't take your relationships for granted. For example, you'd ordinarily rather spend your time with close friends than spread yourself thin between many acquaintances. You are a genuine person - not the type to hand out meaningless compliments. Most times, you'll think carefully before you speak, so when you do say something others know that your praise is real.

Given your test results, Emode's personality experts have determined your four most compatible matches when connecting with others. One of those four compatible types is an ESFJ.

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Sat, 04-05-2003 - 11:44pm
Your love personality type is ENTJ

About 3-5% of the U.S. population possesses the combination of traits that make up this personality type.

Being an ENTJ means that you've got a bit of a rebellious streak in you. So rather than being the kind who follows, you'll usually choose to lead the pack. You also appear to love a challenge more than most others do. So if somebody wants something all they have to do is tell you that it's impossible. You're apt to show them then and there how you can make it happen. You're not one to be easily discouraged in any aspect of your life. So if someone catches your eye, you'll likely find a way to get to know them come hell or high water. You're not just a dreamer. You're a doer.

In relationships, you usually have a clear sense of where you want things to lead. You also know how to take charge of a situation to help things go your way. You can exude a personal strength and confidence that really wins people over. Your friendly, outgoing nature also makes most people quite happy to follow your lead. Perhaps they're empowered or inspired by your self-esteem and can-do thinking.


the irony is that this type is where I am trying to get, and who I want to be, but i would never say it's who I am. I do have clear senses of where i want to be, I do like to call the shots. I am a bit too shy to really strike out, though being newly single, i haven't been in a position where I've needed to. I'm working on the self-esteem, and insecurity, and am starting to believe that I can do whatever I want.