when can i expect to hear from him?

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Registered: 03-13-2006
when can i expect to hear from him?
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Mon, 03-13-2006 - 8:53am

A little over a week ago on Friday, I met a guy through a friend at her party. We hit it off and I gave him my number. Tuesday, he sent me a text message saying he was busy with school and would give me a call Thurs and maybe we could hang out. He called Thurs and we set up a canoe date for Friday afternoon. It ended up being pretty windy Friday so we ended up just going to lunch instead (bummer!!). I thought the date went pretty well as there weren't any awkward silences, conversation seemed to flow well, and we seemed to have a lot in common, but at the end of the date all he said was "I'll call you sometime", which I generally understand to be a brushoff, and gave a one arm hug. I am hoping this meant I didn't bore him to death! However, this entire week he is at the beach for spring break, so maybe that has something to do with the vagueness?

Also, he asked a lot of "future" questions, like "where do you plan to live after graduation" and "what do you want to do after graduation". I don't graduate for almost a year and a half so I kinda got taken by surprise on the "where do you want to live" question. He also asked a lot about my family and he also talked a lot about his family and how much he likes to visit his nieces. Perhaps I am reading into that too much, but does anybody think that is a good sign like maybe trying to figure out long term compatibility? Do guys think that way?

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Mon, 03-13-2006 - 6:04pm

You can't expect to hear from him.