When do I tell him....
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When do I tell him....
| Thu, 04-17-2008 - 3:34pm |
I met this guy a few weeks ago (I mentioned him briefly in other posts).
| Thu, 04-17-2008 - 3:34pm |
I met this guy a few weeks ago (I mentioned him briefly in other posts).
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I fear being in your situation, because I don't date guys with kids either.
Why not say something directly to him about wanting a friend relationship with him the next time he tries to hold hands or something like that. Or the next time he pays, say something like no friend's split the bill! I think you need to be more direct.
Oh yes, say something sooner than later.
"I really enjoy us hanging out. You're really nice/cool/fun, but I'm not interested in children & I can't sleep with anyone I'm not in a relationship with. I just wanted to make sure we were doing the same thing."
Thanks everyone for your replies. I told him this weekend and it was AWFUL. I felt awful and
>> It was so uncomfortable I just wanted to move on.
AJ, enjoying life with C.
Edited 4/23/2008 5:42 pm ET by hillaryh8er
AJ, enjoying life with C.
>>>Totally unrelated...you all are freaking me out with the "I don't date guys with kids" talk. I hadn't, either, until recently. It's going well -- but you all are making me think I'm doomed. :) <<<<
Well it's certainly an individual choice.
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