When do you ask yourself...

Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
When do you ask yourself...
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Tue, 11-01-2011 - 7:26pm

Is this going anywhere?

I'm watching Friends.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 11-01-2011 - 9:23pm

I think it depends a lot on what kind of relationship you're looking for.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
Tue, 11-01-2011 - 10:22pm

I think women make up their minds about whether something is going anywhere in the first 10 minutes, really.

Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
Tue, 11-01-2011 - 10:46pm
Marina- I'm struggling with both a and c right now. Fortunately, he doesn't seem to demand much of my time, so it's not like I'm missing out on anything (or anyone) else. But for some reason I feel like I need to make a decision right now instead of just going with how things are right now (which isn't anything substantial). I suppose I don't want to end up seven years from now asking how to break things off!
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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
Wed, 11-02-2011 - 12:04am

What one wants and what one needs.

chaika

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
Wed, 11-02-2011 - 1:26am

The first paragraph of your response was pure and eloquent, one of the most reflective things I've seen you write in a while.

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Registered: 05-14-1999
Wed, 11-02-2011 - 10:33am

Usually by the second or third date I know if I'm interested in a person or not. If I'm not genuinely interested and there's no chemistry, I'll tell them we're not a good match.

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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
Wed, 11-02-2011 - 1:17pm

chaika

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Wed, 11-02-2011 - 3:28pm

I really don't think that most women look at men as "breeders" or "sires" and looking at genetics or what kind of offspring they are going to have, unless they have some kind of serious hereditary disease.

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Wed, 11-02-2011 - 4:09pm

Ah!

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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
Wed, 11-02-2011 - 7:29pm

Hi Music

chaika

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