When do you "cut bait"?

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Registered: 02-26-2011
When do you "cut bait"?
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Thu, 04-05-2012 - 9:58pm

I've been distant of late because I met someone last month.

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Fri, 04-06-2012 - 1:25pm

You Jezebel you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No; So how are you going to get him to your house if he cant commit to anything right now.. He might make it to your house but then after dinner he might say okay.. I have to go and tend to my daughters.. Or he is in

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Fri, 04-06-2012 - 2:30pm

Ugh! Hadn't thought of that.

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Fri, 04-06-2012 - 3:40pm

Well...sniff sniff...he called and made some long excuse for why he has to be with his daughter all weekend, can't see me until Tuesday...but he likes me to call and text so I'm welcome to continue to do so and he'll respond whenever he can.

I said, "I'm done with that.

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Fri, 04-06-2012 - 8:15pm

oh; Sorry Marina...but there is a chance he will

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Fri, 04-06-2012 - 8:53pm

I keep my male/female ratio of friends at about 1 guy friend for every 8 females. Just spent the last three nights, each with a different gf, so i'm ready for some male company. Since BF changed my plans for tonight, I accepted a date with someone whom I suspect has ZERO long term potential but who thinks I am hot and who will doubtless cheer me up tonight, however I choose to be cheered.

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Fri, 04-06-2012 - 9:12pm

Okay.. Carry on then and be safe..

I hope pause guy comes to his senses and realizes what he is missing...or maybe that saying will hold true. Absence makes the heart grow fonder..

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Sat, 04-07-2012 - 4:38am

Hi Free,

It's 1:30 AM and all I can say is that "the Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away."

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Sat, 04-07-2012 - 10:12am

Hey Marina,

I like what another poster said about Harville Hendrix's book(s).

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Sat, 04-07-2012 - 1:14pm

Free, Mark, anyone - help!

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Sat, 04-07-2012 - 1:19pm

Well I think the big clue that he was emotionally unavailable for a relationship was that he was not done emotionally w/ his divorce.